Internet Dating and the problems it causes..

pocketrocket_2

Hi

Things are good which is great but I dont know what to do still not asked to see his phone.
Im too scared of the answer, too scared of sinking into depression if I get bad news.

Thing is he always wants me to be there with him if he was desperate to chat to others all the time then he would be feeling restless after a couple of days with me but he never is he cant wait to see me, and to be honest I cant wait to see him.

shell_girl

To me everything about this guy screams trouble... sorry OP. He sounds controlling, calculating, manipulative and needy.

In several of your posts you're almost blaming yourself for his behaviour, and finding excuses for him. He's undermining you and chipping away at your self confidence.

I get the impression that you feel lucky that he's chosen you? And that perhaps you wouldn't meet anyone else if this was to end? What message do you think he's DELIBERATELY giving you with the three phone trick? He's making you question yourself, making you paranoid, making you less likely to confront him just in case he does decide to chuck you!

I would be seriously concerned about pursuing a relationship with this guy- just because (sorry this is going to sound so harsh) in my previous line of work I would hear women describing relationships that were just like what you have described on here at the beginning- then they changed. See sig for clue about my last line of work

worriedsik

pocketrocket wrote: »

Hi

Things are good which is great but I dont know what to do still not asked to see his phone.
Im too scared of the answer, too scared of sinking into depression if I get bad news.

Thing is he always wants me to be there with him if he was desperate to chat to others all the time then he would be feeling restless after a couple of days with me but he never is he cant wait to see me, and to be honest I cant wait to see him.

Do you still want to see his ''phones'' ? if so then its best you get this done ASAP
Is it still troubeling you ? then do it now
If he loves you that much he will be more than happy to show you his ''phones''
Why are you scared off the answer ? ( this tells me that its a bad relationship if you cant ask a simple Q ) it will be worse further down the road , the hurt would be much worse.

But if you are happy not to know then fine personaly i would have to clear this up before it went any further but its your call

movingforward2010

Ive been here before trust me this will destroy you mentally!

I have a gut feeling something was right with someone i met online and started a relationship with, I ended up setting up fake profiles, getting a pay and go sim card and spend a whole afternoon texting her once while she was in work, unknown to her it was me, she only text me once all day .:rolleyes:

But I was right, she was arranging to meet other men, get out now before you get even more hurt

The_Banker_5

I know I say this every 10 posts or so but yes its true;


I blame t'internet:D

Errata

Why would any sane person need 2 or 3 mobiles for personal use ?

BritRael

Errata wrote: »

Why would any sane person need 2 or 3 mobiles for personal use ?

er...to meet other women and hide it from their partner of course :rolleyes:

GSXRCarlos

Is this thread still going?

maggied_2

GSXRCarlos wrote: »

Is this thread still going?

Errrmmm.......as long as people keep posting on it......