A new start for Mooloo

Errata

DS is outside now, desperate to get the moped on the road!. His CBT test is going to cost £100 if we use thier equipment, and £125 if he used his own. So I will have to check with his father if he is prepared to put the money up, now, or if I have to wait until my Dad's cheque to DS is banked, and cleared

Just wanted to suggest that he uses their equipment. If it falls over when he's doing his test and something breaks it's their problem. If he uses his and something happens it's his problem, and after reading your latest post there are enough unforseen problems cropping up at the moment.

Keeping_Motivated

Mooloo I am sorry to hear your latest news. I know usually it is something to celebrate but in this case it sounds like more pressure and stress and probably will be detrimental to her first son too as if she is already struggling to give him time now how will she once the baby is born.

Could you get her some counselling for making a decision about this baby from her health visitor or doctor?

As for her letting her son spend more time with his father, isn't he rough/abusive with the baby? Do the SS know that he is spending time there?

I am glad that your decision to move came before the announcement of the pregnancy or I fear you may not have had the strength to go through with it with that new knowledge.

Take care

Js_Other_Half

<hugs>

You've done your level best for them all, unfortunately every one is entitled to make their own mistakes.

Savvy_sewing

Js_Other_Half wrote: »

<hugs>

You've done your level best for them all, unfortunately every one is entitled to make their own mistakes.

I am back. Now its just me for the rest of the day, and that means I can watch what I want on the TV, eat when I like and sleep when I want too!.
I am going to ask the number of the new social workers. See what they are doing about things with twin2. Then I must just step back, and let what ever events unfold, unfold.
When Baby goes to his father, he is supervised by his parents. I personnally have no worry about things when they are about. It is obvious that they have all bonded well, and although Dad is a bit heavy handed, it is not deliberate, and I think that he has learned his lesson now, and is realising that babies bruise easily. I havent seen any evidence of anythingelse for quite a while.
If I do see anything, I will shout to the rafters though!
I suppose we are at early days with the pregnancy, and we will just have to see what evolves now.!

Time for me to see what I can do with a packet of bit ripe tomatoes. Time to go digging on the Old Style threads etc.:rotfl:

shaz_mum_of__2

Well one on remaining detatched Mooloo i know it's not easy but neccessary sometimes

Take care of you

Shaz

Savvy_sewing

Biggest of Mooloo told me to take care of myself this morning, when I said I was supposed to take twin2 to town. She said why? And in deed, why, I didnt need to go, so why waiste petrol money, and parking, and time, and push myself to the limit. She can take a walk down to the basic shops in Brackley. ! So I said NO>!!!!

Errata

I am going to ask the number of the new social workers. See what they are doing about things with twin2. Then I must just step back, and let what ever events unfold, unfold

Now that you've handed over the 'reins' to the professionals for both the twins perhaps the best course of action to achieve a good outcome for everyone is to leave the professionals to support, help, guide, advise the twins.
There's nothing new under the sun and they will have seen it all many, many times before and have a good understanding of what strategies are of most help to young women like the twins who find themselves in challenging circumstances.
These kind of circumstances are difficult for most young women, but the twins learning difficulties may mean that professional help will be the best help.
You tried so hard to get them on an even keel, and accepted it was beyond you in the end. That was an act of courage and not one to feel guilty about. HTH

Savvy_sewing

Old habits die hard, I do struggle a bit, but am determind that they are not going to kill me off yet! Hence, I had to step back. I dont really think I had much of an option if I wanted to sort my health, my son, and my life out!.
Time to eat my soup and toast, and then have my afternoon nap!.

tired_mum

Hi Mooloo sorry to hear that things are not running smoothly hopefully SS will be able to deal with twin 2 and her news I know its hard but maybe you stepping back will turn a light on somewhere heres hoping for your sake

minimoneysaver

Awww Mooloo, not what you wanted to hear from Twin 2. I just hope that SS step in and provide her with the best help. Was she trying to get pregnant, or was it an accident?