A new start for Mooloo

Savvy_sewing

I think that B & B would be a good idea, you also get food, even if its only breakfast.
I shall have to have a chat with Biggest Of Mooloo when I can. See what she says, then I will really have to find time to photograph things and find out how to sell on Ebay, as I never ever did get around to doing that.
But now I have something to think about, and to look forward to, as long as She can take DGD for a week. ! Or even a long weekend would be nice.

Better go and check up on the dinner.
Really am feeling much better and upbeat!. The sunshine has helped no end.
As well as everyone on here.xx:T:T:beer:

Molly41

I think it should be a list of nice things to do. Some things that you can do easily like a bath, mags, gardening, sewing and then somethings that might take some planning such as a break away from home or a day out, cinema, theatre, sewing show at NEC. Have a relaxing evening - Larkrise to Candleford tonight. That was originally written about a little village close by to Brackley on the road to Oxford.

Errata

Wise words from Molly, and good to see you planning things for the future.

I shall have to have a chat with Biggest Of Mooloo when I can. See what she says,

In your shoes, I would tell her she has to have DGD for a week, because not only has she to get used to having DGD all the time, she also has to get used to her life not being her own when DGD moves in with her. If you were totally laid up for a week with something and completely unable to look after DGD then Biggest would have to step up to the plate. A week on your own, pottering and pleasing yourself, could prevent you from getting burned out by all of this, because at the moment you have no idea how much longer you will have to look after DGD.
As for the rest of the family wanting you - they've managed before when you've been on holiday, they can manage again.
You're a great girl, but you ain't Superwoman !

mumoftwo

Mooloo, been reading your thread and big virtual hugs for you. Do you know MISI ? It is an internet shop, Make It, Sell it, where people sell their handmade stuff. You are such a great seamstress, maybe an idea for you.

http://www.misi.co.uk/handmade_gifts/1/1/handmade-bags.html

Savvy_sewing

Wise words from everyone.
Right I have to go or I will burn our dinner. humble though it be!.
I really appreciate all the ideas. I really am feeling so much better.!

Savvy_Sue

Can you go and stay at your parents' house for a couple of nights while they are away? Sometimes a change is as good as rest, and all that ...

Savvy_sewing

I suppose I could go to Mum and Dads but I would like to try and go somewhere where I could explore and maybe go for a short walk. The parents place is not in anywhere inspiring at all. However if I get a break immediately then there's would probably be as far as I could go.
But if I am to look foreward to somewhere, and not have memories of those places then it would be nice.

Now its time to watch " Larkrise to Candleford" and get lost in some good old fashioned entertainment.!

Loose myself in times gone bye.
DGD is in a bed tonight. Hope she sleeps better then she did in the cot.
But will have to listen out for her.
been writing in my new journal, aptly the old one ran out yesterday.
Aiming to keep positive, and to look forward to a time when the family do not take up all of my time.

Savvy_sewing

mumoftwo wrote: »

Mooloo, been reading your thread and big virtual hugs for you. Do you know MISI ? It is an internet shop, Make It, Sell it, where people sell their handmade stuff. You are such a great seamstress, maybe an idea for you.

http://www.misi.co.uk/handmade_gifts/1/1/handmade-bags.html

Ooh, somethingelse to look at, added to my favorites so I can find it again. will look after Larkrise! thanks

Savvy_sewing

Well its not such a bright morning as yesterday here. Not only with the weather, but within me.
I have had further contact with ExBF, and am in quite a contemplative mood. I have to stand firm though, as things were just not right, for a very long time.
So I may not be as brave as I felt yesterday. But we have to get through today.

This morning DGD woke me at 6.15am. She had wet the bed. So I have plenty of washing to do this morning. And to remember to put the Drynites sheets on my shopping list.
We sat in mine, and I wrote in my diary. She played with my junk jewellry. So she has had bracelets on her ankles and tried to strangle me with beads!!
Ah well thats kids for you.
I have just repiled to an email from him, which has got me in the emotional mood.
It was my fault, I sent an email last night, trying to explain the why it was to stay over.

Anyway, my todo list needs some attention.!
So I better get into the positive mode again, and face the rest of the day ahead of me.
Check the bank balance and makesure that there is money for the bills coming for the rest of the month, and if not panic.! No I think I have the bases covered, but I need to make sure, as the funds are lower then I would have liked with helping out Twin2 lately. Never again I tell you that.
I am becoming selfish, I am going to be thinking of ME first. (Well I can try cann't I?)
We have an interview with the police this afternoon over some very inappropriate comments on my daugthers facebook.! Slander/liable who knows but its been distressing. The person concerned has to be stopped.! We reported it to Facebook, but they didnt even reply to it.

Catch up in a bit, my toast has gone cold while I have been on here.!!

candygirl

Hi Mooloo,
Have just caught up wirh your latest news, and wanna send you massive (((huggles))) about the ex bf scenario, but as my Mum says "if they're not for you, they're agin ya";):DShame he couldn't have supported you more:(
Hope the police are some help today.It never ends does it hun?:(