A new start for Mooloo

Savvy_sewing

No havent heard anything from the Employment Support meetings. Last spoke on the Phone early December, and she had a bad leg, so couldnt drive so the meeting was cancelled. Next due to have one in February.

I think I am exhausted with Social Services at the moment.
I am trying to keep my calm, but am so fed up.
I have unfortunately lost my copy of my last letters, and the one that I had in Drafts, when I lost my computer!. Ah well. I am trying to just wait and see what the woman says on Thursday.
If I cannot get my car out, I will hve to ask my Dad to come and get me, and take me as I cannot afford to miss this one.

DGD is driving me to distraction. Obviously I should be paying her attention and not being on the lap top. Either that or my patience is just runnning thin today.
Sheis into everything.

floss2

How about showing her the Cbeebies website? Only she may want to be on there all the time if you are on the laptop!!

Jo4

Mooloo wrote: »

To be honest I am board stupid, not being well enough to actually go back to work and have a career.
Having always been a very independant person, I am finding being stuck at home, and on the basic benefits, completely alien, even a year on.
I want to be well again. I want to have a career, I want to be out and about. Being Busy and find the "dynamic" me that I used to always be.
May sound silly, but being ill, is making me ill. If you know what I mean.

I know the feeling as I had a hit and run car accident 3 days before my 25th birthday and I had to give up work. Although that was almost 8 years ago the people I used to work with are still wondering if I am coming back to work and I was their manager. :eek:

I have had to content myself with what I am able to do but I do have a very supporting husband who helps with everything. :j

Savvy_sewing

Alas, no husband to help, and a boyfriend who cannot cope with my family, so it becomes two seperate lives, which is driving me even more nuts. In the middle of wondering what we actually do have in common, and whether after 5years is it going to be going anywhere or are all the trials and tribulations in my life have just been too much for him to cope with, so he finds it easier to stay apart. But I just want the normal, couple life that we grow up to believe are normal. !

I think I am a bit depressed today. I havent been out since last Tuesday. The car is stuck in the garage, I cannot dig it out, dispite my ex husband dropping me off some grit. My son is 17 today and I dont even know where he is?

Think I will go and raid the cupboards for some comfort food/ Choccy somewhere!
DGD is ruining my books, so I better go. She is too rough with them, and keeps saying "careful" and out goes another corner of the book.!! Aaghhhh

Savvy_sewing

I have just found out that my son is still in Oxford and has not contacted his work. I wish I didnt have DGD here as I would be over to Oxford and box his ears in!!!
Well you know what I mean. An so angry with him. So very angry.

minimoneysaver

Does this mean that he will lose his job now? So much for leaving college to have a fresh start and have a career. You must feel so let down by him.

Savvy_sewing

minimoneysaver wrote: »

Does this mean that he will lose his job now? So much for leaving college to have a fresh start and have a career. You must feel so let down by him.

I do not know if he will loose his job, but speaking to his Dad, who used to work there, I think it is highly likely. Not unless DS actually booked the day off as its his birthday, and told them and not me!.
I just want some respect and decent treatment from him.

I just feel so low now. :eek:

Savvy_sewing

On the plus side, I have managed to make the lining/cover for the moses basket for the new baby. So it can arrive now! (Well anyday now!. I just hope its not going to hang on too long, Mum is getting very fed up of being so big now.)

Savvy_sewing

I have spoken to DS's boss. Looks like he is about to loose the job, he was due to start college on Monday. He has lied to me, he has not contacted work, they havent heard anything since I rang in last Wednesday to say we were snowed in.
The person I spoke to on MSN has not come back to me, and DS didnt come home, or get in contact with any of the family at all. So I am thinking about filing for a missing persons? Becuase I am not sure if she was just covering for him. I mean why didnt he come on line and chat to me? Tell me he was safe. Why didnt he contact any of the family it was his birthday for goodness sake?
I am so very worried about him.
And angry.

Errata

To be on the safe side, phone the police. You don't know where he is, he hasn't been in contact, the weather has been beyond dreadful, and he's only 17 years old.