MSE Parents Club Part 3

cazscoob

im on the depo right now and just had it renewed so no chance of that.
basically the problems stem from me having an affair 3 years ago. i had bad PND and then i had to go through my nephew dying. i was at the hosp at the time and i couldnt handle things. i had a CPN visit once a week as i didnt want to go on medication. OH wasnt there to support me (it was his sis baby) and i got attention from his friend. it didnt last more than a few weeks and i told OH what i had done. we agreed to try again and thats when we had charlie.
TBH OH has never really made any effort to sort things out and blames me for everything. yes i agree to take most of the blame but he has to hold his hands up at the same time and understand that everything is not my fault.

I break my heart when i think about that night, i knew when the phone rang what was going to be said, i had to pick up OH mum and have never diven so fast in my life(was above and beyond ban teritory) i sat all night in the hosp while OH was in his bed. even the next day he couldnt understand why i was so upset as it wasnt my baby. to this day i wish i hadnt went into the room to see him but with the police and everyone running mad i did. i now this is no excuse for what i done but basically its he background of how it all started. sorry to ramble just need to get it off my chest?

My_Fathers_Daughter

Caz, will he go to relate or something similar?

It does sound like he hasn't forgiven you...

ladybirdintheuk

I keep meaning to tell you guys that these learning through play blocks are great. We got one as a hand me down, and Izzy is big enough to play on it on her own now, and she loves it (It also seems to be quite fun for engineers - they all want to play with it with her, then when she goes off to bed the toy stays out )

SeptemberBaby_2

I'm sorry, ladies, but I thought I had another 10 pages but it was nearer 20! :eek:. My inner nosiness is dying to know what you have all been up to but I just don't have the time to read back . Is there anything I need to know?



Caz, I am so sorry about DH. Lots of hugs to you xxxx



I was a bit like Mel before my hol as I had a little read every now and then but didn't have time/have anything useful to add (I don't make booby juice and Jamie sleeps like a dream! :rotfl:). But I'm going to check in more often now as I hate not reading every post .

We had a lovely time in Spain but I am in no rush to take two babies abroad again (and that was with 6 adults! :rotfl:).

Jamie will be 6m at the end of this month :eek: so I'm preparing to start weaning in the next few weeks. The weaning HV is coming out to see me next week and I'm looking forward to making a start (my HV's are really fab and lovely! ).

Lots of hugs to those in need.

xx

My_Fathers_Daughter

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tiamai_d

I've got rid of my kids tonight, but DH working, what on earth am I going to do?

(and who's dead jealous?) :rotfl:

redmel1621

Hi SB - glad you had a nice time in Spain....

Mel x

Savvy_Sue

caz, you can SORN online these days, so it's not as if he couldn't have done it out of office hours!

Hope things improve, can only agree with Mrs Tine, take control!

SeptemberBaby_2

redmel1621 wrote: »

Hi SB - glad you had a nice time in Spain....

Mel x

Thanks, Mel. It was my parents Ruby Anniversary so the whole family went away together.

xx

SeptemberBaby_2

MFD, you have Wii Fit don't you? Would you recommend it?

DH can't get over the fact that I want a Wii (never in my life have I ever played a game on any type of console and I previously requested he didn't get one as has every other type :rolleyes:) but I NEED to get fit after staying in a hotel with obviously had a HUGE mega budget for mirrors! :rotfl:

xx