MSE Parents Club Part 3

emlou2009

or texting OH at work every hour declaring how tired i am and has he called his mum yet :rotfl:

apparantly she has chosen the one she wants to get us so i dont want to tread on any toes, we dont see her very often cos she lives a 45 minute drive away and i think shes a bit jealous of how much time my nan spends with the little fella. when DSS was born OH lived at home and DSS and the ex moved in so she spent a lot of time with her and they're quite close.

feelinggood_2

keelykat wrote: »

Blimey, I feel well and truely left out with all this breastfeeding talk!

Me too. I think that is the main reason I avoid all the Baby Groups and friends with babies. As horrible as it sounds, other people having success at breastfeeding upsets me no end

cazscoob

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Ooo - Caz, I googled your village - it's TINY!!

it is tiny abis nursery class only has 10 kids:D

yes scruffy it is the one with the indian in the petrol station lol! thats who i fell out with the other week lol!! :rotfl:

cazscoob

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Caz - with all due respect, you are very young to be sterilised IMHO. I know you don't want any more but believe me, life changes when you reach your 30's.

Edit to say - Caz...I didn't mean that to sound patronising even though it did. Sorry.

I asked for your opinions as i knew i would get them! (not sure how to multi quote lol!) i spoke to OH last night and he said the same. no one knows what the future holds and in 10 years we could decide we want more or that we may not even be together we never know? i think what has got me is that i bumped into a friend who got done and 2 years later her little boy was killed by a drunk/drug driver, she was injured and her neighbour and daughter were also killed. i know a child could never be replaced but it does make you think?

i am going to phone and ask them to put it on hold as i dont think i should go with doubts. at least someone else might get in for that slot. erin wasnt planned and was a big shock, i never told anyone until i was 23 weeks apart from OH mum and dad. think i have rambled enough for this time of the morning lol!:rolleyes: and thanks for your opinions x

MrsTinks

emlou2009 wrote: »

not neccessarily with virgin media you only need a landline installed for the tv channels, we have internet only.

they give you the option to call you that minute or in two minutes so its not even like i could get them to ring in a hour at someone elses house, i'm still fuming :mad::mad:

Ahh not quite right - although you are connected to cable there is still a landline however Virgin smell and don't let you have the line details and don't activate the line for calls (btw I work for an ISP so this is my territory )
I don't suppose that your mum or someone has a landline? all you need to do is be near it when they call and access internet from your mobile or something? Just trying to think of solutions

MrsTinks

cazscoob wrote: »

I asked for your opinions as i knew i would get them! (not sure how to multi quote lol!) i spoke to OH last night and he said the same. no one knows what the future holds and in 10 years we could decide we want more or that we may not even be together we never know? i think what has got me is that i bumped into a friend who got done and 2 years later her little boy was killed by a drunk/drug driver, she was injured and her neighbour and daughter were also killed. i know a child could never be replaced but it does make you think?

i am going to phone and ask them to put it on hold as i dont think i should go with doubts. at least someone else might get in for that slot. erin wasnt planned and was a big shock, i never told anyone until i was 23 weeks apart from OH mum and dad. think i have rambled enough for this time of the morning lol!:rolleyes: and thanks for your opinions x

As I struggle to contemplate 2 or 3 kids let alone 5 I personally don't see the problem But obviously you feel that you might want more (YIKES!) so why not get your hubby snipped? This is far easier to reverse (I have a 5 year old half brother who is proof of that) and very quick for the bloke...

emlou2009

oooh mobile internet could work... i'll investigate on my mobile, good idea!

cazscoob

mrs t they will not do him as he is only 25 and under the age limit for their criteria! also he said there is no way he is letting a man touch his bits lol!

redmel1621

Hellooooooooooo (thanks MFD for noticing I was missing:))

Firstly BIG congratulations to Sami and Searching, and anyone else who has had their babies:D

All the baby pics are lovely and certainly making me broody:p

Kai is also growing out of his 3-6mth sleepsuits he was 12wks Sunday gone...I am just going to get him little pyjamas that way at least his ickle tootsies won't get squished:rotfl:can you tell I have been spending faaaar too long around babies/kids....It's been school holidays for over two weeks and it has dragged!!!!!!!

I haven't had my letter through yet for Kai's second lot of jabs....it is 12wks they have them isn't it??

I think since us prgnancy thread lot have moved over here it is very hard to keep up....I will do my best but apologies if people think I am ignoring them, I'm not, I promise:)

Mel x

PS. can I join you all on facebook please?

cazscoob

hi mel! that must be some size of a baby you have lol! erin is just going into 3-6 months and she is 16 weeks today!

yeah the jags are usually 8,12,16 weeks? erin got her second at 14 though as she wasnt well enough to get them at 12 and they only do clinic once a fortnight!