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When to start dating again?

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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Honey I am sure he wont be thinking that at all. It sounds like you had a great night, and I am sure he is thinking the same. You managed to talk all night, that is a major achievement.

    Why not text him and say thanks for a lovely time and ask him out this time?

    You know you want to:grin:
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  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    No i can't i have a major tiz when i tried to kiss me, fell over.. ended up headbutting him .. it wasn't good.
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Taye wrote: »
    No i can't i have a major tiz when i tried to kiss me, fell over.. ended up headbutting him .. it wasn't good.

    sorry but :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    of course you can, make a joke of it by saying "I promise not to try to knock you unconscious next time":D

    seriously do it now, he probably went home laughing to himself about the whole thing.
    It was certainly memorable for him then:D
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  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    maybe, i just don't think i made it very easy i didn't exactly try and recover the situation i just scrambled into the taxi so fast i didn't so much as say sorry.

    He tries to kiss me i'm that desperate not to be kissed i stumble backwards to avoid it, land on my !!! and then trying to pick me up, i headbutt im for his trouble... then don't so much as say sorry just scramble into the taxi and whizz off.

    Goodness knows what he thinks of me now :(
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • Merry_Gentry
    Merry_Gentry Posts: 3,627 Forumite
    I read this last night, and this morning just had to come back to find out how it went. Sounds like it was a really pleasant evening - nowhere near as scary as you thought it might be!!
    Taye wrote: »
    No i can't i have a major tiz when i tried to kiss me, fell over.. ended up headbutting him .. it wasn't good.

    Just make a joke out of it, and think of it this way - you've had the bad kiss, it's gotta be uphill from here!! :D
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  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    I read this last night, and this morning just had to come back to find out how it went. Sounds like it was a really pleasant evening - nowhere near as scary as you thought it might be!!



    Just make a joke out of it, and think of it this way - you've had the bad kiss, it's gotta be uphill from here!! :D

    haha well i had an attempted kiss ... it didn't get within 3ft of actually landing before i totally wigged... poor bloke... i guess i should text him at at least say sorry.:o
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    IF he is the kind of guy I think he is.......if you explain about being nervous, I am sure he will understand:A

    go on text him before i go to work

    I wanna know what he says:D
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  • Threebabes
    Threebabes Posts: 1,272 Forumite
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    I would text him to say thanks for the evening and oops sorry about the fall lol, laugh it off, it happens to everyone.
  • Lunar_Eclipse
    Lunar_Eclipse Posts: 3,060 Forumite
    Taye

    He sounds delightful; completely got his priorities right in life. :)

    Agree with the others. Text him to say thanks and sorry. If he feels safe to go out with you again, you'd love to buy him a drink/coffee/whatever. :)

    I really don't think you'll have put him off btw, I think you are probably exactly the type of person he wished he'd married the first time round - not that I think you should think beyond the immediate do what feels good right now. Panic not, smile lots. Relax and enjoy.
  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    i did what you guys suggested and texted him told him sorry and that i'd like to go out again.

    He replied saying that the way i ran off he thought i'd never want to see him again he was worried he'd upset me, anyway he's gonna meet me in the gym tommorrow and get some lunch after.
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
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