Advice on maybe cheating other half

CarliJ

So I got home, and unfortunatly his sister needed somewhere to stay the night, so i didnt get an opportunity to speak to him arrrrggggghhhhh. So once today is over with, i am getting him to pick me up from work and having it out there and then with him. I dont care if he shouts about looking at his phone, as the last poster said i would rather know the truth than live a lie, i will keep you all informed on what happens next, and thank you all, all of your messages etc have really helped me to calm down and think rationally! xxxxx

Uniscots97

CarliJ wrote: »

So I got home, and unfortunatly his sister needed somewhere to stay the night, so i didnt get an opportunity to speak to him arrrrggggghhhhh. So once today is over with, i am getting him to pick me up from work and having it out there and then with him. I dont care if he shouts about looking at his phone, as the last poster said i would rather know the truth than live a lie, i will keep you all informed on what happens next, and thank you all, all of your messages etc have really helped me to calm down and think rationally! xxxxx

Carli, remember stay calm you've done nothing wrong. Not even by looking at his phone, you were worried and had a right to know. If it comes down to it ask him to stay elsewhere tonight not you. But make sure there's a friend or relative that can come and keep you company. :grouphug:

upsetonerightnow

Men are just PIGS!! they try to make you think that everything is your fault when it's not. Good luck for tonight hun

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Zazen999

upsetonerightnow wrote: »

Men are just PIGS!! they try to make you think that everything is your fault when it's not. Good luck for tonight hun

xxxx

Not all of them are pigs. Some are quite nice and wouldn't dream of having an affair.

I hope you sort it out OP.

garthdp

upsetonerightnow wrote: »

Men are just PIGS!! they try to make you think that everything is your fault when it's not. Good luck for tonight hun

xxxx

Nonononononono!:mad:Some men are no doubt!But not all.Bear in mind if this man is having an affair then the woman with whom he is having the affair clearly knows he is married.So what does that make her?Wheres your universal sisterhood now?

OP, you are right to be upset but this will only be solved by talking to him.UPSETONERIGHTNOW I wish you well but please do not condemn an entire sex by the actions of a minority

spirit

It's not quite a minority if more than 50% of men would if had the chance or have cheated.

richardw

upsetonerightnow wrote: »

Men are just PIGS!! they try to make you think that everything is your fault when it's not.

Relationships are a two way thing, what exactly did you find yours guilty of?

bryanb

Can someone explain why looking at a partner's phone messages is regarded as a crime?
50% of the people involved in hetrosexual affairs are female.

Jamz

spirit wrote: »

It's not quite a minority if more than 50% of men would if had the chance or have cheated.

WOW, way to pluck a statistic out of the air!

spirit

swiss69 wrote: »

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You obviously dont know men very well then Pinkshoes - I know plenty of my mates who talk about it and if the chance arises they would go for it! Stats show that 50% or more people have cheated at some point in a relationship so 50/50 chance they would!

not plucked from the air, jamz, this poster brought it up.