Its ok , so he thinks ......

july73

moggylover wrote: »

Hi Mandi, could not get a connection last night so this is the first chance I have had to come back.

How are you today, are you feeling just a little bit more decided and confident? Have you managed to get some sleep and to eat?

Tell us why last night was so awful, you need to "talk" it through, and you need to let us support you. Maybe we are all just strangers on a screen - but that is often easier than people in rl knowing in the first instance.

Big hugs again.

Moggy

Please do stay in touch, we all want to help. Here if you need us.

((((hugs)))) & xxxx

blackeel

Hi Mandi.....dont know whether you remember sending me your good wishes when i was having trouble

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1209911

Well i'm still not there yet..apparently his bail ends soon......so ive got to contact Police again.....

Ive just noticed your thread and glad u took my advice and asked MSE for help, i was worried as i didnt hear back from you.....

You're getting excellent advice, stick with it and you will get there in the end.....

moggylover

Just a quick update, with Mandi's permission, to say that she thanks you all for all your kind words and support and she is okay but not feeling up to coping with the thread at the moment.

Many thanks.

Pinzy

Whenever you're ready luv. It ain't easy.

Paparika

You need to stop making excuses of why he is doing it and stop now.

This is your home, ring the council/locksmith this morning and get the locks changed.

Ofc your children are suffering, if mummy isn't the happy mummy they will know (oh yes they know), how many more slaps, and beatings are you going to take, do you think this is normal??? no hunny it is not.


This is your home and your life, so what if Christmas is upon us, make it a great one this year for your kids, send him packing.

Nice blokes do not hit their girlfriends / partners because a drop of booze, what kind of man is he, sounds like and insecure wimp to me.

And i do know what i'm talking about i too was a domestic violence victim.

look at me now, i'm no longer scared of someone who needs to use their fists to get my attention, i look at him and laugh and think what a prat he is.

jay11_2

moggylover wrote: »

Just a quick update, with Mandi's permission, to say that she thanks you all for all your kind words and support and she is okay but not feeling up to coping with the thread at the moment.

Many thanks.

Thanks for the update Moggy, I'm glad you caught up with her. I'm not surprised she wants to take a step back, it's not an easy situation.

Jay xx