Its ok , so he thinks ......

mandi

em , just 6 weeks after the last " slap ", my Bf has done it again, and again.

Head held down on the kitchen floor, this time .....


and I cant call out, hes taken a battrey, out of my phone,

ragingbass

!!!!!!?! I won't try to offer any advice beacuse it's so obvious what needs to happen

alwaysonthego_2

Mandi you need to get out of there asap and you know that too. Contact women's aid http://www.womensaid.org.uk/ good luck!!!!!!!!!!

robpw2

mandi wrote: »

em , just 6 weeks after the last " slap ", my Bf has done it again, and again.

Head held down on the kitchen floor, this time .....:D


and I cant call out, hes taken a battry, out of my phone,

why are you grinnning?
being slapped by someone who says they love you is not funny ]

get out of there call the police and press charges

mandi

robpw2 wrote: »

why are you grinnning?
being slapped by someone who says they love you is not funny ]

get out of there call the police and press charges

Thanks Rob, suppose thats was just me , at the time of posting,( the grin ) .. Ive sat here, since my last post, quite numb.

I already have called the police, sevaral times. Last time they came , they took him to a friends house ..

alwaysonthego_2

Mandi do you have children? Do you own the house or is your name on the tenancy agreement?

mandi

alwaysonthego wrote: »

Mandi do you have children? Do you own the house or is your name on the tenancy agreement?

I have 2 boys, & my name is on the tenancy ...i know what im going to be told, everyone is going to say, all the things I already know. I made him leave , something that sometimes has never been easy, but was tonight. I think he knew he,
hurt me .|

alwaysonthego_2

ok so you know about the different orders you can get to protect you and your children? Mandi think about your boys, even though he may not be hurting them, you are putting them aswell as yourself in a vunerable situation. If he violence continues there is a posssibilty social service may become involved if neighbours etc report it. You are obviously crying out for help otherwise you wouldn't have posted it?

mandi

alwaysonthego wrote: »

ok so you know about the different orders you can get to protect you and your children? Mandi think about your boys, even though he may not be hurting them, you are putting them aswell as yourself in a vunerable situation. If he violence continues there is a posssibilty social service may become involved if neighbours etc report it. You are obviously crying out for help otherwise you wouldn't have posted it?

My Boys are staying with their dad Always ..

He would never hurt them , I know that. It just seems that when hes been drinking, he looses any self control............

I have to be honest, Im sometimes scared to speak..........walk on egg sells . But, when Im me . I can be so confident.. Just hate the way he gets

rchddap1

I agree with the others. This has to be sorted. Even if he ends up leaving whilst he sorts himself out. Its obvious you know the mantra. No-one can make you do what you already know you need to. You have the strength to call the police, but you have to have the strength when he says "I won't do it again honest love".

If you need support then you'll find plenty here. And from many who have been in the same situation.

mandi

rchddap1 wrote: »

I agree with the others. This has to be sorted. Even if he ends up leaving whilst he sorts himself out. Its obvious you know the mantra. No-one can make you do what you already know you need to. You have the strength to call the police, but you have to have the strength when he says "I won't do it again honest love".

If you need support then you'll find plenty here. And from many who have been in the same situation.

Thank you,

Yes Ive read the posts rchddap.. and wowed I would never post a thread, but 8 years on, I can say that this is now a regular thing..about every 8 weeks .

Last time was the 1st time he actually said sorry


BTW he lives at home, stays over, some nights. his parents know he hurts me .
and are on my side..Just that hes so head strong . ( maybe they cant speak, out to )