Trying for a baby (12+ M/not straightforward)

dizziblonde

Friday = scan day... have horrid feeling I'm going to be sat in a room with women with bumps waiting or something equally insensitive. Then another couple of weeks to wait for verdict of that... and then we brace ourselves for oh's perfect sister to invariably fall pregnant the second after her wedding - feels inevitable.

shelly

toniq wrote: »

Yessssssssss

I had a call from guys and st thomas's, my consultant has booked me in herself for pre op 20/07 and op 21/07 so i can recover before we fly, means i can have my frozen embabies back in me in august !!!!!xxxx
i really hope the hysterscopy does the trick and the frosties work xxxx thank u all for caring when i was getting messed around, if is hard enough without being messed around xxxxxx

Best of luck and hope all goes well!! :j

jiblets1

Great news Toniq! What a relief to be back on plan.

kizmet106

Hi everyone!

Thats great news Toniq - good luck!

dizziblonde - I know exactly what you mean. I seem to have the most fertile friends in the world. One of them is currently expecting her 4th and says very helpful things like "I don't know what I'd do if I were you. I'd be climbing the walls by now". Yes thank you that is exactly what I am doing and not very helpful!! :rotfl:

Does anyone know if the HCG trigger injection causes backache? I had the injection on Friday morning and couldn't move off the sofa yesterday it ached so much

juliesg

kizmet106 wrote: »

Hi everyone!

Thats great news Toniq - good luck!

dizziblonde - I know exactly what you mean. I seem to have the most fertile friends in the world. One of them is currently expecting her 4th and says very helpful things like "I don't know what I'd do if I were you. I'd be climbing the walls by now". Yes thank you that is exactly what I am doing and not very helpful!! :rotfl:

Does anyone know if the HCG trigger injection causes backache? I had the injection on Friday morning and couldn't move off the sofa yesterday it ached so much

i never got backaches with them but everyone in different have you tried googling it

beebuzz168

Thanks for the advice FE... and congratulations on your BFP. I have been lurking around here a while before posting, and have been following your story - am absolutely delighted for you.

Will look into that Fertility website, and maybe start to do temping etc... just so I can go in as armed as possible. With temping, do you have to start at a set point on your cycle, or can you start any time?

Been 28 days since last period, but seeing as the gap last time around was 78 days, I could be waiting a while!

kizmet106

juliesg wrote: »

i never got backaches with them but everyone in different have you tried googling it

Thank you, yes it said that it can be a sign of ovulation but I thought that was meant to happen 36 hours after the HCG injection and this was 2 days after then

I am in the same boat aswell. We have a little girl who is 4 who took us around 2 years to have. I am so grateful that I had her before having all my surgery which I think is causing our problems (along with my PCOS) but would love a little brother or sister for her.

I have three four more months on Clomid and then my specialist said that our only option is IVF which we sadly cannot afford so this may also be the end of our journey. I know friends who have had accupuncture or reflexology and swear by it - so this may be an option for you if you haven't already tried it? x x x

sarahs999

beebuzz168 wrote: »

Thanks for the advice FE... and congratulations on your BFP. I have been lurking around here a while before posting, and have been following your story - am absolutely delighted for you.

Will look into that Fertility website, and maybe start to do temping etc... just so I can go in as armed as possible. With temping, do you have to start at a set point on your cycle, or can you start any time?

Been 28 days since last period, but seeing as the gap last time around was 78 days, I could be waiting a while!

You are suposed to start at the beginnng of a cycle but ther's no reason why you can't start at any point. Just make sure that whenyou start a chart you enter the first day of your period on the date that it was, then start temping from the day you are on now.

liloandstitch

Just a flying visit - hello to everyone, I agree with everything said! (Cos I have a brain like a sieve and cant manage replies today!)

Toniq - great news re the dates!

Lilo

Agutka

Hello, I hope you don't mind a stranger popping in. I wanted some advice re SIL. She has a four and a half year old son, and has been trying for another for two years now. She's been through three miscarriages and one ectopic pregnancy, where she lost a tube. She is now being monitored by the doctors, all her tests have come back okay. And she's just had a positive preg test.
I don't know how to talk to her. I'm being really upbeat, as she's really good at hiding her feelings, saying it doesn't matter what happens. I felt I was grieving more for the ectopic baby than she was, which of course can't be true. So should I ignore her pregnancy until we know the outcome, or should I talk about it? Talk candidly or skirt round the subject? I really want them to have another baby, not all this pain. She's been so close to giving up, it's heartbreaking.