Trying for a baby (12+ M/not straightforward)

liloandstitch

Well it appears that p u s s y c a t is a rude word!!!

Lilo

toniq

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jiblets1

Welcome dizzi. I second what toniq says. I'm 29 and I feel like I've got bags of time to get on with this (although I really hope it happens sooner rather than later) so I don't think you need to feel like time's running out. Lots of ladies on here have needed to take breaks in ttc for one reason or the other, and if that's what it takes then I think it should definately be an option to consider.
Good luck with everything - we all understand on here how bitter it can make you sometimes.
I also think you'll feel better when you feel like you've got a plan of action, and the scan will hopefully help with that. I would also have a chat with OH and explain how you really need to work together wherever the issue lies. The issue with my partner and I lies with me, and OH is very careful to support me with whatever I need to do to fix it, and not make me feel like I've got to sort it out on my own. It really helps. (As does chatting on here - so stick around!)

liloandstitch

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Thanks toniq, you made me laugh! Lilo

liloandstitch

Actually, Ive re-read my post, and think Id better hide for a few days, in case anyone takes me at my word and comes and shoots me!

Lilo

toniq

Your post is brilliant! u gave me a kick up the bum, which i need believe me, in comps i get pampered by my mates as they know how much i hurt, so it is good to wander here and get a sharp ankle kick!!!!!!! xxxxxx Don't hide u r funny ( haha not doolally) xxxx

shelly

Thanks for the butt kick lilo!

Its not often I feel so low as usually I am such an optimistic person. I feel much better tonight though. Had a lovely cool shower this afternoon (melting wasn't the word) then a nice big bowl of chocolate Carte D'or ice cream after tea....scrummy....whilst watching the Simpsons movie.

becs

Lilo's right girlies! It is really hard sometimes and we all have the right to wallow in the mire sometimes but we need those pma's back! We've had some fabulous BFP's on here recently and if that doesn't give us all hope I don't know what will. I hate to see so many of you usually upbeat people feeling so down.

p.s. can someone please remind me of this post in a couple of days if AF shows and my PMA leaves the building! :rotfl:

MadMac_2

:hello::hello: Hi Dizziblonde, as you can already tell lots of us share your woes and frustrations, but it is always good to talk and sharing is even better!

I regularly have days when I feel time has passed us by and luck is no more, so I am so low I hold back the tears all day and want to shout at the little madams in Tesco who are screaming at their tiny babies in pushchairs that swamp them - I swear these mums are getting younger and younger and younger! But more likely I'm just showing my age... :eek:

Really late in from work again tonight and just grabbing some food, still says 28C here and even that feels cooler than earlier! What a hot and humid day we've had here in Devon. Feeling more and more like a singleton what with OH away so much recently and even when he is here he isn't capable of BDing too much! Showing his age too, I suppose!

Lilo - don't go and hide! What would we do without you for support?

MadMac_2

Just while I'm scoffing and catching up on emails see latest MSE one, but cannot find Toniq's win on it? Do I need my eyes testing (well, yes probably!)?