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Trying for a baby (12+ M/not straightforward)
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I need help to work out when to test xx
I had egg collection last monday, 2 emmbies back in on saturday day 5, today is day 10, im guessing it's too early ? im going out of my mind, my dreams are mad, im not settled at all, i had a bfn on a 4 day early first response, oh went nuts and said it isn't the same as a normal pregnancy as its ivf. tia xx#JusticeForGrenfell0 -
I need help to work out when to test xx
I had egg collection last monday, 2 emmbies back in on saturday day 5, today is day 10, im guessing it's too early ? im going out of my mind, my dreams are mad, im not settled at all, i had a bfn on a 4 day early first response, oh went nuts and said it isn't the same as a normal pregnancy as its ivf. tia xx
Hi toniq, I tested 8 days after transfer,which was day 13 after collection - which was probably too early anyway.
5 days after Transfer is wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too early to test !!!!!!
I know its hard,but hang on in there.
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thank god so i still have a chance? thank u xxx im booing now xx#JusticeForGrenfell0
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Try to hang in there Toniq!
I can't really advise when to test because I'd keep putting it off for fear of the result....good or bad I'd be scared witless!:heart2: Love isn't finding someone you can live with. It's finding someone you can't live without :heart2:0 -
Toniq, keep thinking positively hun, as much as you can. I can only imagine how you are feeling, but try to keep looking after yourself and thinking the best. Sending good vibes your way and I'm praying for a sticky bean and happiness to follow x0
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Oh toniq, if I even get to the stage as you, I know I will feel exactly the same. Try to hold on for a bit longer..... xx
Thanks to MSE, I am mortgage free!
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toniq, try and wait!! You are way too early!
Back to your distraction techniques, I think!
LiloLive on £4000 a year again for 20110 -
Nottslass - Congratulations!! Fantastic news :T Bet you can't wait until your first scan! Won't be long

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Nottslass - Congratulations!! Fantastic news :T Bet you can't wait until your first scan! Won't be long

Elle xx
Thank you,Still have to keep pinching myself !!!
When do nurture scan ?
OTD isn't till Sunday - I've done 5 tests already and think that I'll carry on until Sunday (just to be sure)
Don't know how I'll cope if its a "matching Pair" !!!!(not that I'm complaining)0
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