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Trying for a baby (12+ M/not straightforward)

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  • toniq
    toniq Posts: 29,340 Forumite
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    I need help to work out when to test xx

    I had egg collection last monday, 2 emmbies back in on saturday day 5, today is day 10, im guessing it's too early ? im going out of my mind, my dreams are mad, im not settled at all, i had a bfn on a 4 day early first response, oh went nuts and said it isn't the same as a normal pregnancy as its ivf. tia xx
    #JusticeForGrenfell
  • nottslass_2
    nottslass_2 Posts: 1,765 Forumite
    toniq wrote: »
    I need help to work out when to test xx

    I had egg collection last monday, 2 emmbies back in on saturday day 5, today is day 10, im guessing it's too early ? im going out of my mind, my dreams are mad, im not settled at all, i had a bfn on a 4 day early first response, oh went nuts and said it isn't the same as a normal pregnancy as its ivf. tia xx

    Hi toniq, I tested 8 days after transfer,which was day 13 after collection - which was probably too early anyway.

    5 days after Transfer is wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too early to test !!!!!!

    I know its hard,but hang on in there.

    nottslass X
  • toniq
    toniq Posts: 29,340 Forumite
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    thank god so i still have a chance? thank u xxx im booing now xx
    #JusticeForGrenfell
  • shelly
    shelly Posts: 6,394 Forumite
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    Try to hang in there Toniq!

    I can't really advise when to test because I'd keep putting it off for fear of the result....good or bad I'd be scared witless!
    :heart2: Love isn't finding someone you can live with. It's finding someone you can't live without :heart2:
  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Toniq, keep thinking positively hun, as much as you can. I can only imagine how you are feeling, but try to keep looking after yourself and thinking the best. Sending good vibes your way and I'm praying for a sticky bean and happiness to follow x
  • nottslass_2
    nottslass_2 Posts: 1,765 Forumite
    toniq wrote: »
    thank god so i still have a chance? thank u xxx im booing now xx


    Of course you still have a chance !!!!! You're just Bl**dy impatient.

    The 2ww wait should be renamed, 2 weeks of slow torture !!!!!!!
  • angelavdavis
    angelavdavis Posts: 4,714 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Oh toniq, if I even get to the stage as you, I know I will feel exactly the same. Try to hold on for a bit longer..... xx
    :D Thanks to MSE, I am mortgage free!:D
  • liloandstitch
    liloandstitch Posts: 1,333 Forumite
    toniq, try and wait!! You are way too early!

    Back to your distraction techniques, I think!

    Lilo
    Live on £4000 a year again for 2011
  • nomnomnom
    nomnomnom Posts: 229 Forumite
    Nottslass - Congratulations!! Fantastic news :T Bet you can't wait until your first scan! Won't be long :D

    Elle xx
  • nottslass_2
    nottslass_2 Posts: 1,765 Forumite
    nomnomnom wrote: »
    Nottslass - Congratulations!! Fantastic news :T Bet you can't wait until your first scan! Won't be long :D

    Elle xx

    Thank you,Still have to keep pinching myself !!!

    When do nurture scan ?

    OTD isn't till Sunday - I've done 5 tests already and think that I'll carry on until Sunday (just to be sure)

    Don't know how I'll cope if its a "matching Pair" !!!!(not that I'm complaining)
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