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  • cazscoob
    cazscoob Posts: 4,990 Forumite
    hey all hope your all doing fine! hello to the newbies and welcome to baby Charlie he is some size of a boy!!! best thig about bigger babies is that your not scared to change and get on with it all!!:T

    As for the planning next babies are you all MAD pmsl!!:eek: :eek: i had 13 months between first 2 and it was hard work am going to have 13 months between ast 2 and tbh am a bit worried about it!! As i never let my body sort itself out after the SPD last time around i am struggling with it all now. went to the physio today and she gave me a giant tubi grip to help hold me all in and try to help my back pain. i also got a support belt which is oh so fetching lol!:rolleyes: but by the looks of things she said i will be on crutches towards the end as im only 24 weeks and in a lot of pain:mad: so how on earth am i going to manage with Charlie a bump and a set of crutches lol! oh and was also told that i am only allowed to do 30 mins of housework a day so OH is in for a lot of work:D:D
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  • nicole136
    nicole136 Posts: 261 Forumite
    I've got an appointment at the early bleed clinic tomorrow morning... Some old blood and a blood clot came out last night as I was going to bed... :(

    AHHH Thinking of you Krystal tomorrow....

    Thanks for the kind messages, I feel like I turned in to a lunatic ever since conception, feel so inpatient and intolerant, like i want to scream!! I am so pleased about bubs but have so much fear now! Im hoping thats normal, I know we did not TTC for long at all and im grateful for that., and i hope what im saying does not offend those that were not as fortunate. DH is away tonight so hopefully he will do the cave thing and come back all dealt with etc... Did anyone else get scared about how the relationship will cghange. I love DH so much, and we have only been married since jUNE, so its happened very quick! Anyway sorry to go on, not really spoke to anyone about the PG yet. good to be part of this, even if my bubs is the youngest in the class at the mo!!!
    :j :beer: :j
  • mirrorimage0
    mirrorimage0 Posts: 3,918 Forumite
    relationships do tend to change for a while

    A. because you have something else to love other than your hubby and some men do get a bit jealous

    B.you will both be quite tired and emotional a lot of the time

    just enjoy it for as long as you can because the baby stage doesnt last long, if you need advice or help ask for it, dont feel you shouldnt or that you should know everything because no one does

    if some one offers help or advice in any way take it, dont feel you have to do it all on your own, and try to make time for eaach other whenever possible.

    we are on our third so its not all bad lol, infact i find the baby stage the best and the easiest, (why we teach them to talk and walk i dont know lol)

    good luck with it all
    now proud mum to 3 handsome boys :j latest one born 10/10/11:j
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    nicole136 wrote: »
    AHHH Thinking of you Krystal tomorrow....

    Thanks for the kind messages, I feel like I turned in to a lunatic ever since conception, feel so inpatient and intolerant, like i want to scream!! I am so pleased about bubs but have so much fear now! Im hoping thats normal, I know we did not TTC for long at all and im grateful for that., and i hope what im saying does not offend those that were not as fortunate. DH is away tonight so hopefully he will do the cave thing and come back all dealt with etc... Did anyone else get scared about how the relationship will cghange. I love DH so much, and we have only been married since jUNE, so its happened very quick! Anyway sorry to go on, not really spoke to anyone about the PG yet. good to be part of this, even if my bubs is the youngest in the class at the mo!!!

    I can totally appreciate where you are coming from :) I married DH in May and we fell pregnant first try! We were expecting to be trying for a while as all our friends have taken 8months + to get pregnant... not us... first try! ARGH!
    Yeah I have panic attacks at the moment about things and I'm at 11+3 so I think it's normal :) I keep thinking "OMG what on earth have we done!!!" we've not had anywhere near as much US time as we thought we'd have before baby arrives, but then the next minute I think "OMG we're pregnant... I'm gonna have a gorgeous little bundle and it'll be all ours!"... and then the next minute I see an advert for Dominos and burst into tears for no apparent reason... hmmm :rolleyes:

    And then I have the "why on earth did I think this was a good idea??? why did no-one tell me just HOW sick I'd be!" (Well I know why my parents didn't tell me before hand... they want grandkids :rotfl: )

    But I am sure it'll all settle down soon :)
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  • Had midwife appointment today and got the hear the heartbeat which was great!! She also said it was going to be another big baby as measurements are that of a 20 week and am only 17 weeks. My other 2 were 9lb 2 and 8Lb 13 so expecting this anyway.

    My blood pressure was high and have protein in urine so have to go back in 2 weeks time. If same again will have to be referred to the consultant!!

    Bit worrying really!!
  • sooz
    sooz Posts: 4,560 Forumite
    :D I need help

    I'm nearly 32 weeks pregnant, here on my own for once -OH & boys have gone on holiday without me, & I'm having mad cravings, but I don't know what for.
    So just this once I can have whatever I want :T (and not have to justify it to them)

    But the cupboards are full of ingredients (not food) and I don't know what to have. I've got one corner shop open, or can take the bus to a little tesco. The car refuses to start as it's snowing.

    What shall I have for dinner???
  • mirrorimage0
    mirrorimage0 Posts: 3,918 Forumite
    anything and everything you want, go into the supermarket or corner shop and pick up whatever you fancy, i just had loads of pancakes with lemon and sugar. mmmmm delicious
    now proud mum to 3 handsome boys :j latest one born 10/10/11:j
  • sooz
    sooz Posts: 4,560 Forumite
    Mmmmm pancakes.

    I need suggestions, as if I just go out, I'll be there until the shops close looking aimlessly at shelves. I'm not good with decisions....there is a very bad case of baby brain going on here. ;)
  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    relationships do tend to change for a while

    A. because you have something else to love other than your hubby and some men do get a bit jealous

    B.you will both be quite tired and emotional a lot of the time

    just enjoy it for as long as you can because the baby stage doesnt last long, if you need advice or help ask for it, dont feel you shouldnt or that you should know everything because no one does

    if some one offers help or advice in any way take it, dont feel you have to do it all on your own, and try to make time for eaach other whenever possible.

    we are on our third so its not all bad lol, infact i find the baby stage the best and the easiest, (why we teach them to talk and walk i dont know lol)

    good luck with it all

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:I agree with this wholeheartedly, after the day i've had with my two today.... Luca, who will be 8 in two weeks, seems to have developed the attitude from hell. I'm hoping it's a phase.

    I have been thinking about maternity clothes lately as I am huuuuuge and all of my size up joggers are starting to become tight and a bit restrictive really. I don't find jeans very comfortable during pregnancy so I won't get any, what else could I go for...with my other two I lived in dresses as I was pregnant over summer and shoved on thick cardis at the end when weather turned a bit nippy.

    Mel x
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
  • mirrorimage0
    mirrorimage0 Posts: 3,918 Forumite
    thick leggings and skirts or try linen trousers, i havent started looking at maternity yet as im not that far gone, oh and https://www.asos.co.uk are doing maternity clothes from the 3rd of november
    now proud mum to 3 handsome boys :j latest one born 10/10/11:j
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