MSE Pregnancy Club III

cazscoob

im like that Sami i keep going until someone offers to take kids its not often i ask but always fel guilty when i do?? my MIL is going in next week to get her thyroid gland out next week it ha made her so ill and the radiation treatment made her worse?? i have asked her if they will implant it into me after baby is here and then i can loose the weight rapidly lol!!!

cazscoob

oh feelie thats not good i hate being the one to have to break the news. i hope that all gets better soon for all involved xx

well the tree is up!!

feelinggood_2

Pictures Caz, I want tree pictures!

I'm only having a little tree this year, don't think I'll be up to decorating and undecorating a 7ft tree this Christmas.

OH is back, and seems to have taken the news okay. His Dad has been in hospital a lot over the years, so I think he is used to it. Got a film tonight and a nice dinner, so that should help. Cuddles have a great medicinal value.

MrsTinks

feeling - I don't know you that well... I just know that I'd do it almost to spite any consultant who told me that So if on the 31st I'm on here saying i'm having a HB can someone please remind me why it was I didn't want one - because if my consultant tells me before I say anything that I SHOULDN'T have a HB etc then darned tootin I'll tell them I want one! - Stubborn like that

Sami_Bee

cazscoob wrote: »

im like that Sami i keep going until someone offers to take kids its not often i ask but always fel guilty when i do?? my MIL is going in next week to get her thyroid gland out next week it ha made her so ill and the radiation treatment made her worse?? i have asked her if they will implant it into me after baby is here and then i can loose the weight rapidly lol!!!

I don't envy you, I doubt you get many offers with a large brood. OH's uncle has got 4 girls and even when there was MIL, FIL, BIL, OH and me we had our hands full! but I'm sure yours are much better behaved coz their mum is actually a mentalist

cazscoob

Sami_Bee wrote: »

coz their mum is actually a mentalist

but so am i pmsl hahaha. my sister used to take them a lot and OH mum and dad also did but between my sis falling preg and i dont like where she is living(top floor flat in a terrible area) and OH mum being ill i have kind of put kids off going. if i really want to go out or do something i will ask but TBH its sometimes easier just not to bother lol!!

ill get tree pics up soon lol! need to iron and put the curtains back up though lol! cuddles are the best medicine feelie xx

Sami_Bee

cazscoob wrote: »

but so am i pmsl hahaha. my sister used to take them a lot and OH mum and dad also did but between my sis falling preg and i dont like where she is living(top floor flat in a terrible area) and OH mum being ill i have kind of put kids off going. if i really want to go out or do something i will ask but TBH its sometimes easier just not to bother lol!!

ill get tree pics up soon lol! need to iron and put the curtains back up though lol! cuddles are the best medicine feelie xx

I'm sure your not as mad as her! she's the kind who makes up stories and disappears and tells her kids that if they go to visit their dad (OH's uncle) something bad will happen to them. She also moved to wales but doesn't keep up her side of the custody rules so uncle has to drive there and back to pick up/drop off :mad:

I hope that my bubs will be nice little angels so no trouble for my 'rents
and I'm praying my sis moves back home when she settles down coz she had an interview for a hosp abot 40 miles from home and pulled out coz she said she likes where she is now too much:eek: its lovely for her and where she lives is a really nice place but its literally on the other side of the country, we're nr Manchester and she's near hull and I miss her loads plus I don't want her to have babies when so far away coz I want to be nicking them all the time! I do love a baby (but I couldn't eat a whole one lol) but I'm not the sort to keep on popping them out so I always have a little 'un
sorry went on a bit there!:o

cazscoob

dont worry my sister said she would never have any and that mine were enough as she could have all the fun over a weekend and then take them home when she had enough! not sure whats she is planning on doing when she has enough lol!(her Oh has left when she fell preg:()

dont talk about eating all i have had is a bowl of soup all day??? hubby thinks its funny and said go eat bisto it wont help but thickens it up TMI i know sorry lol

Sami_Bee

I usually find when I've got a dodgy tum the only thing I can face is a boiled egg with soldiers and a cup of sweet tea.
Your poor sis, i hope she's doing ok? I know my sis will deff have a baby or two and she reckons she's found "the one" but doubts she'll get married as she'll never be able to afford it :rotfl: she won't be starting her family for a few years yet as she wants to pay off her student debts, buy a house, and build her career more first (she's older than moi at 26) I'm guessing she'll be having her first at about 32 when I'll hopefully be fostering some wayward little monkeys :jump:

Krystaltips

FG, I think we had the same consultant... Sounds the same... 20 min rant, woprst case scenarios etc... and I totally agree that the more they say you can't the more you want to tell em where to stick and you'll do exactly what you want...

My tutor told me recently about something called domino care, it's basically where you labour at home, the midwife comes and checks you and will say 'Oh I'll come back in 3 hours' or 'OK, it's time to go into hospital now' then you go into hospital just in time to push it out... In theory... I'm going to research it a little more then ask my midwife about it...