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taking responsibilty to get me where I want to be
Good morning MSE'ers I have been reading diaries for the last few months and have found peoples stories so inspiring that I am hoping for some company on my own journey , this will be my own log which hopefully will motivate me at times of bleakness so I can look back on any progress I have made My sitituation is quite…
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Getting Over "The Terrible Mistake" and a Debt Free Target of 2026
Hi everyone In January 2022 I had to sit down and tell my wife that not only had I managed to lose over 100K in inheritance but tried to recoup those losses through adding approximately 25k in credit card debt. COVID also caused a huge drop in income. Through a couple of really crazy investments (Avoid AIM investing like…
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From debt to freedom...
For a couple of months I have been lurking and reading diaries which have been helpful and inspiring. I thought that I would start a diary to keep myself focussed on getting rid of the debts. I am a working mum, recently separated from my husband. I have a large family which makes for an interesting and busy life! I have…
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KMNs diary - curbing spending and maximising saving with a new baby
So maybe a bit random to have a diary when I'm not in debt, but I am about to start my maternity leave (at the end of the month) as we prepared to welcome our first child in early March. We are incredibly lucky to be quite comfortable, own our home (mortgaged) and both able to put some money in savings at the end of each…
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Get a grip woman!
Having been reading a number of people's debt-free wannabe diaries for some time now, I have finally decided I will start my own. We are less than three years from wanting to stop work, and less than ten years from state retirement age. I manage our household finances and DH lets me get on with it. His attitude is more…
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Which to pay against first
Unsure where to post - lingerer but not totally au fait with posting. At the point of near breakdown with the extent of debt (15k) only fully brought to light through remortgage / monthly increases. Question is, what to pay first? Lots of 0% CC (£200 - £4K), but one has ended so interest is through roof and declined for…
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Small Business, Big Debts
Hello all Debt free wannabes! :) I posted on these Forums over 10 years ago, and it made such a huge impact on my (successful!) attempt to get debt free, but a LOT has changed in the last 10 years, so I’m back again! The accountability and kindness I received back then was invaluable to me, so I hope to bring some of that…
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Oh pants I messed up BIG!!!
Ok so I have been lurking in a major way for the last 2 weeks after having my lightbulb moment. I have had a pretty rough 2 months and lost both of my bears (labradors) in quick succession (they were both very old for labs) and then I had a minor breakdown over everything and my finances came bubbling out to my OH after…
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My Debt Detox
Evening everyone, I've taken the first leap into clearing up the mess of debt I have accumulated over the years, and frankly feel petrified. So thought by starting a diary I can (hopefully) look back in the future & give myself a pat on the back for getting things sorted. Debt crept up on me through a mixture of poor…
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Accountability Queen
Hello everyone :) I've had a couple of years of big expenses, some expected and some not. Our house desperately needed new windows and then earlier this year mine and my husbands cars needed work doing unexpectedly, I actually had to replace my car in the end. We have a holiday booked for summer which was booked a long…
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On the path to financial security
Hello! I’ve struggled with money management for around 10 years, ever since I left home aged 15. I’m in around £10,000 of debt from credit cards, store catalogues and unpaid bills (not through being unable to afford them, just through becoming very overwhelmed and avoiding the issue). I’m in a much better place mentally…
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Sixty Thousand to clear in 4 years!
I had a previous diary that worked well but drifted away from and didn't keep up with the changes in my life. At that point I had a similar debt but in a sense less to show for it and less able to pay it off. Now with a 2nd baby on the way our little family will be complete and I want our finances and other aspects of our…
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Advice Please
Good Evening People! I don’t know how to start but here goes. I have always had debts but have always managed to stay on top of them until recently. I have 8.5K with Barclaycard these being multiple balance transfers paying £400 a month but due to be charged more interest as coming to the end of my 0% offer. I have 3.5k…
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Geriatricmum vs inner voice: A monologue
Me: "Kids are at school and nursey, workout done, kitchen clean, 100th wash in the machine.... Time to relax with a cuppa and maybe browse the sales." Inner voice: "you have £44.39 in your current account and zero savings" Me: "yeah but I can pop it on the credit card!" Inner voice : "you're currently using over 92% of the…
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Finally taking back control after a decade of debt
Hello, Long-time lurker, first-time poster. I've had CC debt ever since moving to London after university around 9 years ago. Coming here for work on a very low wage, I quickly ate through my savings and started racking up debt on credit cards, without any real means to pay it off. Came to a bit of a head when I ended up…
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Dreaming of being Debt Free
Hi. Like many people, I've been lurking in and out of these rooms and the main website, dreaming of being debt free. I've been living in debt since I went to uni. To put that into perspective, almost half my life. Ive tried many times, and come close, sometimes a run of bad lucks set me back, children being born, or…
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Got to get started Chipping away at it.
So ive been struggling with my debt for a number of years now . And have struggled with debt in the past as well . I came out of uni in what was comparative to my earnings at the time quite a bit of debt. Managed to sort that in my early twenties and was actually really well disciplined . Then I think I fell of the wagon…
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Debt a day
Hi all I did this many moons ago and it just helped massively to see the figures going down, I've got back into trouble again so I need to make a concerted effort this year so here goes: MBNA credit card 0% for 12 months- £7,941.87 Tesco loan 7.5% - £13,193.56 (40 months left) Total: £21,135.43 I have already paid off…
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Over the Rainbow and Quest for a Unicorn
Time for a shiny new diary! It's been so long since my last post in my old diary that it appears to have been closed! Link to old diary here! https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4590301/over-the-rainbow-and-happy-ever-after I haven't posted in 4.5 years! It is so inspiring to come back on MSE and see that…
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Clearing my debt after 25 years
I’m quite new to the forums and not to sure I will have done this right but I wanted to start a diary because I need some forums friends to keep me motivated. My story is a long one! We all have reasons why we ended up with debts, mine has just been some bad luck and some stupid choices! I won’t bore you all with those…