A Little Advice

Drea

A few people have said about him seeing someone else, but I don't think he is. Going by his phone he's been meeting up with other guys.

CB1979_2

Drea wrote: »

A few people have said about him seeing someone else, but I don't think he is. Going by his phone he's been meeting up with other guys.

well does he swing that way then on the side??

half joking, but half being sensible, you never know.

quietheart

Hold onto your self respect and get out quick.
I stuck with someone when I was your age and now (18 yrs later) I still regret it. When I see him it stills narks that I let him treat me badly. Just move on, you can do a whole lot better. You'll make new friends, male and female.
Best of luck.

kizi_2

Hi Drea,
maybe there might be some people on here that live in your local area or close enough to you that you could maybe go for a drink, get yourself out and meet new people. JOIN FACEBOOK.COM its free and i met loads of my old friends there and we ended up having a reunion it was great. Try it yyou will be amazed at how many people are on there and there are diffrenet groups you can join aswell, give it a go trust me its worth it. :j

kizi_2

Sorry by the way im in Hull

Drea

Well he came home last night around 10, so I got my phone back and then we basicly sat there watching BB ignoring each other. I went to bed after BB and he slept in the livingroom. It's obviously over, and I have told him it is, part of me wishes he'd just say 'I still want to be with you and try and sort it' but he'll never do that. I tried to ask him a question yesterday and got a 'I don't want to answer that' so I guess that's it. I'll never get the answers from him.

Loretta

He is an immature, selfish idiot, get rid, you are very young and you don't need or deserve this.

Of course your Mum will be on your side, that is what Mums are for, but she is also older and has seen all this before with her friends over the years, there are lots of men like this out there, some are still doing this at 40, 50 60!! In 6 months time you will have forgotten all about him and as soon as you are away from him it will be obvious you have done the right thing.

We don't want you posting on here in 30 years time saying all this with this bloke!!

Drea

I know, it's just so hard

I don't know how to go about sorting out the flat and stuff. I don't think he'll even talk about that with me...

Loretta

Speak to your Mum, she probably already know what is happening and will be delighted to help you sort it all out

galvanizersbaby

Morning Drea

Sorry to hear your still having a bad time

Is the flat rented between you or do you have a mortgage?