deep in debt and husband dosn't know

LouiseJ

:T WELL DONE:T

You have done the hardest part already:j I am really proud of you.

You can now face the debt together as a united force.

MrsTinks

WOOOHOOOO! Loopy I'm so glad you told him and that he took it so well We did say that having an action plan for how to repay it would help - it's one thing to be told you have huge debts, another to be told you have huge debts and this is how it's going to be fixed and this is what I'm doing and what YOU'RE doing.
I was hoping that he would feel awful for you being too afraid to tell him like that - it means he really really does love you and hopefully this will help you both be far more open and honest about finances (something which a lot of people STILL consider to be a taboo to talk about).
Please do keep posting as we'd love to know how it's going and you know we're alwyas here for advise

Runnybabbit

Hi Lou,

:T :T I AM SO PROUD OF YOU HUN - WELL DONE :T :T

LilMissEmmylou

you must feel so much better now *hugs* good luck clearing the debts.

Just wondering if u ever thought about the ebay idea somebody else mentioned in the thread? Or even carboots? I real nice way to declutter the house and gain some extra cash to put towards the debts too

pretzelgirl

hi hun,glad things worked out well for you with your oh,:beer: and good luck with your dmp etc,and remember we are all here for you..not that i can offer any practical advice tho,as im a bit pants with all that...lol x once again
GOOD LUCK:j

whitewing

Loopy

Great! Well done! I like to start Mondays with some good news. Keep on posting, girl!

CHEAP_AS_CHIPS_4

Well done, that really is the worst part over!

lots of luck for the rest of your journey

RAS

Hi

There is a famous quote somewhere (think it is Mandela) roughly along the lines of

"Being brave is not feeling good about something and doing it; being brave is feeling the fear and still doing the thing that frightens you".

So well done for being so brave, now you can both move on. In fact, if you are both working at it, the chances are your relationship will be stronger.

Bismarck

well done....you've turned the corner...take care.

doodledo_2

Well done for having the courage to tell him and I'm glad he took it well.

Having him on board will make your journey so much simpler.