dads g/f wont give us his stuff

Savvy_Sue

ForDad wrote: »

we dont believe she should have that house.

I'm afraid what you believe is irrelevant. They bought a house together, by your own admission. Your dad chose to arrange things so that this lady was not left homeless on his death. You may not like that, but life is NOT fair, learn to deal with it. What hev says is right.

And no, you can't go into what is now HER house and take the things YOU want. Although I'm not at all clear what you DO want - you don't want pictures, you weren't close to your dad, what is it you're after?

And I think she did the right thing in not throwing your dad's old wedding ring away. The fact that YOU didn't get it upsets you, but maybe your sister was less antagonist to your father's FRIEND.

And thank you for not writing txtspk. It really does help!

chardonnay_2

ForDad wrote: »

i need that money now. she wont talk to us cause my brother took a video of dad dead in hospital to show mum and dad hated mum. not that bothered about pics as wasnt close to him quote]


this says it all

LadyMorticia

I'm really not surprised she's not talking to you after the way you have been treating her, to be honest.

geminilady

LadyMorticia wrote: »

I don't mean to be rude, but why did your brother take a video of your dead father? Didn't your mum believe he had died or something?

I would also really like an answer to this .OP?

ForDad

so wot if he did, its our dad. she wouldnt even pay for our flowers or car for us at the funeral kept saying she didnt have the money. mum paid for a herse car and she had to go behind us in her poxy car that really stuck it to her mum doing that.

LadyMorticia

geminilady wrote: »

I would also really like an answer to this .OP?

It just strikes me as odd....

LadyMorticia

I'm sure you are grieving, but remember that his widower is grieving too, and I'm sure your dad wouldn't want all this hatred and conflict flying about.

xx

zoelouise88

im not trying to offend you but from your post it seems all you are after is his money.

Steve-o

ForDad wrote: »

so wot if he did, its our dad. she wouldnt even pay for our flowers or car for us at the funeral kept saying she didnt have the money. mum paid for a herse car and she had to go behind us in her poxy car that really stuck it to her mum doing that.

Why should she pay for your funeral flowers, or a car for you?

ForDad

cause we didnt have any money. mum said its right we go behind herse she wasnt his wife so why should she go in the line before us. everyones up her bum cause she wrote this speach at his funeral and everyone was laughing and saying how good it were. it was a load of crap about stuff he used to say an that she thinks she knows him better than anyone.