dads g/f wont give us his stuff

ForDad

dad haz bin living wiv a woman for 10 years they bot the house togetha about 5 years ago. he died in march she wont move out the house let us hav his cloths, music or n e thin of his .she sez ther is a will we dont beleve it. I foned the witch to give her a piece of mi mind an tell her to pack her crap up an get out an the witch just cried an sed the house iz hers now coz of some deeds. she sez hez in lot of debt and payd for his funral herself we dont care we just want wot we iz owed. can we make her show uz the will and macke her sell the house

poe.tuesday

can anyone translate this please?

hev_2

If there is a will then it should have gone through probate - I'm not sure but try your local probate office. Anyone can see a copy.

If her name is on the deeds then she will own at least a share of the house and you cannot force her to move out. I'm sorry. It depends how everything was set up when the house was bought.

I think you may need proper legal advice. I suggest that you try the CAB or see if a local solicitor specialising in wills will give a half hour free appointment. Write down everything you can think of before you go so that you don't forget anything.

Good luck.

keelyjrs

:rotfl: :rotfl:

poe.tuesday wrote: »

can anyone translate this please?

hev_2

poe.tuesday wrote: »

can anyone translate this please?

I can only guess - hope I have given sensible advice.

keelyjrs

lol Hev beat me to it, was going to offer same advice!!

hev_2

Just want to say, OP, it was really hard to follow what you are saying, especially for old biddys like me. Perhaps if you give a clearer idea it may get other people who know more than I do to give sound and sensible advice.

Everyone else - there are a lot of threads about bullying being started on various boards and while I admit that I struggled with the OP's post, let's try and be nice.

ForDad

we seen a sol an she foned him an gave sum bull bout joint tenancys an sez that he left nuffin so no pobate. sol beleves her an sez we cant do nuffin.

poe.tuesday

hev wrote: »

Everyone else - there are a lot of threads about bullying being started on various boards and while I admit that I struggled with the OP's post, let's try and be nice.

if the OP want's to communicate then they need to make sure they can be understood, that surely is the whole point of communication, nothing nasty in my query and certainly nothing 'bullying' about it - we would say the same if they wrote in Welsh

hev_2

ForDad wrote: »

we seen a sol an she foned him an gave sum bull bout joint tenancys an sez that he left nuffin so no pobate. sol beleves her an sez we cant do nuffin.

I'm sorry but I think that if it was joint tenancy then I think it will all go to her. Did your solicitor say that they checked the deeds? You can check yourself by going on the land registry website.

Do you have someone who is on good terms with you and your Dad's partner who can act as a go between? I'm thinking if there are things like photos you would like or you would like copies of.

If you are not happy with a solicitor you can ask another solicitor to look into it, but you could be throwing good money after bad. In my experience solicitors aren't stupid and don't fall for con tricks.

HTH

hev_2

poe.tuesday wrote: »

if the OP want's to communicate then they need to make sure they can be understood, that surely is the whole point of communication, nothing nasty in my query and certainly nothing 'bullying' about it - we would say the same if they wrote in Welsh

There are loads of threads being started about bullying by established members to newbies, most of which are started by the same old same old under different names because they couldn't win an argument any other way.

tbh I didn't think it was bullying, but I was just a bit concerned that we would end up in the same thing (:o and thanks to me we have) instead of trying to be helpful.

I am not posting any more for the OP though, because it must be obvious that the way that they are writing isn't helping. You are right, if you want to have an answer you must make the question easy to understand.

Nos da