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wendyw1947

Where's my snow ? beautiful sunny spring like day here in Lincoln.brighton belle dont worry when I get to target I'm sticking like glue to this thread for as long as it runs [ you got me babe ].kpc.sorry about the baby thing but can't have a baby just to please someone else and you say you were honest from the start, take it from ,me I love kids and have 4 but we had more rows over them than any thing else, and now they have all flown the nest we get on better than ever. Good luck with the apple cider capsules ,warning you though I could wee for England lol xxx

katiepoppycat

thanks for the kind thoughts peeps. Why couldn't he have just gone and got a damned motorbike?! Isn't that what they usually do in this situation? I'm absolutely not considering doing it to please him - I get on okay with other peoples kids but I do genuinely feel nothing for em, as nice as they are. It's just something i lack and always have. I guess i have to just wait for him to decide which is more important - being with me, or leaving and hoping he finds someone he'd want to have kids with.

anyway, on a separate note, I got the vinegar tablets wendy - how many a day? It says 'between 2 and 6' on the bottle which is a hell of a variation in dosage. Wonder if they will have me running to the loo - I drink 1.5 l of water a day ( good or bad, it seems about right) so it will be interesting to see. Off to comfort myself with a big bowl of nigella's rapid ragu. I've stayed out of the biscuit tin so far which is quite anachievement actually.

Brighton_belle

Kpc - that's a tough one. 1st of all you are not awful, and neither is your OH: you have always been upfront on this issue, and I think the kids thing, as someone else has mentions can kick in entirely unexpectedly as it has done for your OH. I feel you you both, but as others have said,you can't have kids to please someone else - from everything I have heard and seen, children are hard work (along with many unimaginable rewards) and do put a strain on relationships - I have seen that in my own family including my parents, although them and both siblings whethered the ups and downs. One bro & sis- law never appeared to enjoy their children at all - it was one long 20yr slog. The others did, but slightly different approaches between the couple resulted in periods of tension (all now resolved now kids are 20+ and their family life is great).
A good friend of mine always 'knew' from a young agaeshe didn't wnt kids (is now 47) and she is a warm, loving person and a fabulous teacher anda great auntie.

ajaxgeezer

Ta for the footie commiserations BB.

Pet I've changed gas/elec suppliers twice with no trouble

boddy

Hi everyone.

Have not posted much this week as Ive been really busy.

Im doing my Level 2 EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) course so if I want I can be a practioner. Its quite intensive but very interesting. Im doing some work on my chocolate fixation and it seems to have gone. Something I really neeed to work on considering my appalling chocolate Easter.

Im sending hugs to all those who need them. Will prob get on a bit more this week.

wendyw1947

kpc mine only say 2 a day but will admit to taking a sneaky 3 but its not like drugs is it , its only vinegar for goodness sake. If I was you I'd try 3 one at each meal time and increase it if its not working .Aiso for any of you like pimns try diet lemonade with a splash of balsamic vinegar float cucumber and orange and lemon slices on it and you have a non alcaholic refreshing drink with no calories great for bbqs and even fooled a couple of friends who thought it was the real thing

beanielou

Sorry katepc that you feel that way.
No, I dont think you are wrong to be checking your finances and stuff.
Having been royally S****** over myself, I say do everything to protect your position.

kymrob

have anyone tried dandilion tea?

beanielou

So do I just go & buy cider vinigar capsules then?
Are they expensive?
I need to try something as I am totally stuck.Sigh.

katiepoppycat

i#m a bit stuck too beanie - i'll let you know how i get on with the cider vinegar!