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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread!

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  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    evening all!

    hope we're all well and being true to ourselves.....
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    Just passing thro.....
    I always seem to be the misery-boots.....
    Want to say to all of you posters & lurkers, have a good xmas & new year, hope you'll stick to whatever resolutions you might have for the festive season (I'm actually looking forward to avoiding MP's whip :eek: from 1st Jan onwards).

    I am going to "retire" for a few days, my Dad died this morning - knew it was on its way still a shock - so....hmmm not sure what to say now. I'm OK, just not being AF in the slightest...spect I'll lurk, but back with a vengeance in New Year. Thanks for the AFJ post Lurkio, love the womo clause invocation!!
    Have a good one all of you, thanks to ALL of you for the posts / support / kindness / honesty / humour you've all given. mushy!:xmassmile

    mp, eselt, bis, pls be there for us in jan. maybe mp might share the whip (aargh, sorry mp, just a joke :rotfl: )
  • Oh Winebox, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. Thinking of you.

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Sorry to hear that Winebox, it must still be a big loss even though it was expected. I hope you have as good a Christmas as you can under the circumstances.

    I'm not being AF at all. I had two AF days this week, that seems to be all I'm capable of at the minute.
    HOUSE MOVE FUND £16,000/ £19,000
    DECLUTTERING 2015 439 ITEMS
    “Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    Oh winebox- I'm so very very sorry- take care. Eselt
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Winebox....
    So so sorry about your loss.Even when expected it is still a very sad time.
    Take care of yourself and come back when you are ready.We will all be waiting.

    I will keep the whip ready for when you return....;)
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Christmas is looming and I realized today that I am going to save at least £100 this xmas by not buying the usual 'just in case people call' booze...which I always end up drinking myself.:confused:
    If people are calling round this year they can just bring their own...or do without.:D
    Thinking of this I visited QVC online today as I decided I would treat myself to something nice for xmas because I was not buying the booze.
    I came across a lovely bracelet that I really liked and the design was....Bismark.:A
    I have now ordered this and will be wearing it over the festive season.Each time I am tempted to have a drink I will look at it and maybe I will be reminded of some very wise words of wisdom ;):D

    Now just need to find something called ....eselt:rotfl: :rotfl:
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    Christmas is looming and I realized today that I am going to save at least £100 this xmas by not buying the usual 'just in case people call' booze...which I always end up drinking myself.:confused:
    If people are calling round this year they can just bring their own...or do without.:D
    Thinking of this I visited QVC online today as I decided I would treat myself to something nice for xmas because I was not buying the booze.
    I came across a lovely bracelet that I really liked and the design was....Bismark.:A
    I have now ordered this and will be wearing it over the festive season.Each time I am tempted to have a drink I will look at it and maybe I will be reminded of some very wise words of wisdom ;):D

    Now just need to find something called ....eselt:rotfl: :rotfl:

    I noticed Up Pompeii is on over christmas :D:D:D Frankie Howerd's charater? Oh, please yerselves......... :D :rotfl: :rotfl:



    (((((winebox))))))

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    I came across a lovely bracelet that I really liked and the design was....Bismark.:A
    I have now ordered this and will be wearing it over the festive season.Each time I am tempted to have a drink I will look at it and maybe I will be reminded of some very wise words of wisdom ;):D

    Now just need to find something called ....eselt:rotfl: :rotfl:[/quote]

    Bis bracelets!!! Now that could catch on- we could all wear them with pride as a sign of sobriety- very american, bit like those rubber bracelet things but a bit classier (bit like Bis really?!). Last time I went to Amsterdam they have a brand of liver salts like Andrews over there called eselts...........rather have a nice bracelet I think.

    ((((winebox))))
  • Im so sorry about your dad ((((((((((((((((winebox))))))))))))))))) its always a shock even when expected. Take care of yourself.

    thinking about adopting wineboxs clause for january as well. that may be the way I can make this a success. The other thing for me will be to link it to money saving and weight loss that way I will be able to see a real result quickly. I think I will get a jar and collect my AFJ money then spend it on the first of Feb. Question is how much will i have to spend? Lots I hope:T :T Loved your bracelet story mollypolly - there is a bracelet I have been lusting after too (its called Pandora I think which is a shame, a needstochange bracelet has such a better ring to it :D )

    Hope everyone is ok after what is apparently the worst night of the year for binge drinking (last night) I stayed in but still managed to sink a good few units.

    Just wanted to say I seem to be having problems with my thanks button at the moment so thanks to everyone Im not being rude honestly
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
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