Dbc 1 - Mot 0

supersavershal

Ladylove2uk, I have just read your post , this is awful for you.I think you might get more advice and more people will see your post if you use it to start a separate thread.Im glad you came here to post though as lots of people here have been supportive and helpful to MOT I just dont want you to miss out on help and advice because someone who can help doesnt read MOTs thread.Maybe someone here knows how to move a post and turn it into a thread, dont worry the people who have read your post here will follow it on the board as a thread.I cant offer any advice except maybe you have a case that you can claim from him renumeration for all the years you gave up on having a career to care for him.You probably need specialist help from a solicitor.

taxi73

So sorry to hear of your problems Ladylove.It's a really unusual situation and I think you need some proper legal advice.Have you already got a solicitor?...if not even if you are not entitled to legal aid you should be able to get one for a free half an hour session. Another place that may be able to help is the CAB.Condolences to your family for the loss of your MIL

mumoftwins

Hi Lady2loveuk,

I have to agree with the others and say that you really must contact a solicitor for some good sound professional advice on this as it is such a big issue and they would be able to help - sorry I can't offer more advice and I do hope that things get sorted soon for you xx

silvercar

There is a separate thread for support for ladylove2uk here:

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=711651

mumoftwins

Have spent morning doing more unpacking and sorting, and have found things I had forgotten I had!

Papers come out again tomorrow and Thursday so more scouring through to see what I can find in the way if private rentals. More ironing to do again and washing machine still hasn't stopped:eek: . Twins at football after school so MORE washing! At least Ukelele class on Thursday is clean:rolleyes: .

HAve redirected mail and taking twins to join local library after school - although slightly concerned as think we need proof of ID and/or residence don't we? I don't have proof of residence

Triker

mumoftwins wrote: »

Have spent morning doing more unpacking and sorting, and have found things I had forgotten I had!

Papers come out again tomorrow and Thursday so more scouring through to see what I can find in the way if private rentals. More ironing to do again and washing machine still hasn't stopped:eek: . Twins at football after school so MORE washing! At least Ukelele class on Thursday is clean:rolleyes: .

HAve redirected mail and taking twins to join local library after school - although slightly concerned as think we need proof of ID and/or residence don't we? I don't have proof of residence

Hi MOT.

Give the library a ring and ask what they need. They may not need proof of residence.

silvercar

If you are still in Hertfordshire you could use your old library tickets, they will be valid for any library in Hertfordshire.

ampersand

Minor detail if you explain, mot - you're not on trial. You're doing an ordinary, simple, normal thing.
Lots of Artemis Fowl in Library........:D

ampersand

silvercar wrote: »

There is a separate thread for support for ladylove2uk here:

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=711651

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Thankyou for pointing me to this silvercar:T and special thanks to wherediditallgo:A for starting a Thread for this desperate lady.
No surprise that she felt herself safe in coming here.
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Ladylove - I see your light's on.#Will you go over to the Thread that wdiag started for you please?
Just click the blue bit that silvercar has typed in.
Now just put a little post in there - Hello is fine.
That way, anyone who wants to help you - just as you posted to help mot - can see whether you're online without coming back to this Thread.
They can send you pm's too.
GOOD! - I see you're still on.
Will you pop over there now? - any few words will be fine.
-'Courage' and 'Endurance' were the words on a brooch I wish I still had.
You've come this far; you've got these in spades.
Help's on its way - and forgive me if I speak about mot - you can be darned sure she's right there with you.

ladylove2uk

thank you ampersand my head is everywhere at the min i just didnt know where to post. i just needed to feel like i was doing something to get advice even my other poor daughter found out by reading my thread as i hadnt been able to contact her i will go over to that thread now

thank you all