Mooloo's struggle with babies and bills

Keeping_Motivated

Good for you xx

Savvy_sewing

Right kettle boiled. I have put some washing on, but only mine!. I am off upstairs to gather my bags. Thanks for the motivation!!. Will stop off at the shop for a large bar of choccy too!!

Surfbabe

Mooloo - have a nice rest of your day - remember its your day not anyone elses.

Your girls are grown women now even if they do have problems and they should start taking the consequences of their actions - not leaving it to you all the time. That said - I'm not in your position so its easy for the rest of us to comment.

have a lovely evening with BF and HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Js_Other_Half

:bdaycake: Hope you managed to enjoy part of your birthday

archers_addict_2

hi, just wondering if everything is allright? you haven't posted for a few days. Hope your birthday turned out ok in the end.
best wishes
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Savvy_sewing

Hello, thanks for the concern. I am here now.
I havent been on the computer since my birthday. Didnt have the heart or the strength to come into this room to be honest.

Savvy_sewing

We had a good evening on my Birthday.
I left here and went and sat in my BF's garden reading a book. When he was back from work, we drove to Towcester to the Travel lodge. Settled in there and then went to meet my daughter. Had a visit of her new house, so I know where she is living now. Which is always a relief.
We went for a meal at Frankie and Bennies. Opted to have the main meal then a pudding, but in the end we just had the main meal.
They were cleaning the place around us, so we didnt stop for the pudding, and we drove back to Towcester and had a drink in the Pub at the crossroads before my daughter dropped us off at the lodge again.
It was a complete contrast from the family here!

Savvy_sewing

I did put in a long post, but it got lost in cyber space???? Logged me out while I was writing it.
I kicked the visitor out Yesterday. I had enough of her messing me about, the twins were at loggerheads over her and she encouraged them to stay out late at night. She became a double edged sword really. She also acquessed one of the twins of taking money as she didnt believe she had any money. Even though twin was able to prove she had transfered it from her savings into her account, and the withdrawal at the local bank, registered on her internet banking.!! she had telephoned me on Saturday to tell me, and I was worried then that if it was true did my family take my money.... I didnt know that she had been proved wrong until yesterday evening. Even when I gave her a £5 and said here, take your money, I didnt think that any of my girls ahd taken her money, and that I believe she had been proven wrong. Her answer...... Well it looked like it!!
She had encouraged one of the twins to go out the night before when I had said no, (which has cost her £30 in babysitting fees as the girl she got in charged a fortune!) which was stupid as her sister was still here.
Anyway if it wasnt one twin out late it was another, or my son. So I lost the plot yesterday and I have said enough is enough. she has a room sorted out for Friday, but in the mean time she can stay at her BF's.

Surfbabe

Well done Mooloo !!!! Glad you have that bit of your life sorted. and glad you had a lovely birthday.

Savvy_sewing

Well its nearly 6pm already. I have been back from work for about 30 minutes. Made a cup of tea and searched out my computer. It had been moved into the supposed baby room. Well thats a tumble of toys and washing now. So much for them keeping it as a baby room.!
The washing I asked to be hung out is still wet and folded in the basket!! Oh and on such a lovely day as today too!.
Twin 2 had her meeting again today, with the social services. Not a lot different really as all they have said is that they see that things are not being done, and that I am at the end of my tether.!! That they are still trying to negotiate some sort of help on a more regular basis.!! The baby will be a teenager before they sort themselves out!.
I am tired and weiry. I have struggled with my arm this week, and on Monday I now have to endure and hour at the gym with the physio department, for my back/hip. Problem is that some of the exercises are affecting my arm!. Feel world weiry today.
Been keeping off of the computer as I should be doing things around the home, but I am so depressed I just go to bed early or go to my BF's. Its got to stop, things must change I know, but I am not sure that I have the energy today. Just drinking a cup of tea and resting my feet up at the moment.