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Watty's Awakening

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  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,361 Forumite
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    edited 22 May 2024 at 6:46PM
    Hanging pictures makes such a difference. It has really helped me cope with the endless grey (walls, floors, kitchen units) in this house. Having said that, I really love the two rooms I've had decorated and can't wait to do the rest. 

    Enjoy making the house your own - focus on that, and try not to let the drama impact on you more that it has to. 
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,361 Forumite
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    I have someone removing the dog door and fitting the cat flap today @Watty1. Tomorrow an internal door is being blocked up. So today the cats are trapped in the kitchen. Tomorrow they'll be outside/in the utility room. And I still have furniture to move for tomorrow's work and then next week's. But it's all progress. 

  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,109 Forumite
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    I hung up one of my art works last week and a print I'd bought - it made such a difference to the room. I totally get your excitement over hanging your prints. Enjoy. 

    I also understand why VNM's mum would be triggering. 
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.3K Equity 36.55%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £30.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 35.5/£127.5K target 27.8% 14/11/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 62K or 48.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5.1K updated 14/11/25
  • PennysIntoPounds
    PennysIntoPounds Posts: 5,143 Forumite
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    Thats so difficult for you both. Ultimately though even if she is ill, it's her choice as to what she consents to, and her being unwell doesn't mean VNM magically doesn't need to pay bills or buy food! Lasagne and wine sounds lush. 
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,109 Forumite
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    Good you got paid for call.

    Commiserations on the 🐴 🐎 Must feel never ending. How's MH 🐎?
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.3K Equity 36.55%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £30.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 35.5/£127.5K target 27.8% 14/11/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 62K or 48.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5.1K updated 14/11/25
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