Watty's Awakening

Watty1

Great perspective @KajiKita and @badmemory.  Having had a father I would never have relied on let alone asked to do anything I had not thought of that so that was super helpful.   

Once I read your thoughts I thought oh yes, of course, she probably has no idea he is not at the top of his game and overwhelmed by everything.  I will leave her car for now having gently said can a plan be made.

As for WattyDog's car for that is how I really think of it, I called the insurance company and asked why I had not heard, got an apology and said the engineer's assessments were very behind but I should have a call tomorrow, so, in progress.   Sad as WattyDog and I like the car but it is inevitable it will be a total loss.

Cherryfudge

That's a shame about the car. I know it would have been worse had the VNM been injured (was he checked over?) but it sounds as though you are feeling the loss.

Perhaps involve WattyDog in choosing your next car, so he can identify with it.  

Watty1

Cherryfudge said:

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Perhaps involve WattyDog in choosing your next car, so he can identify with it.  

Hilarious   WattyDog doesn't really like car journeys, as a puppy he was very car sick and I tried every remedy i could think of and none really helped.     As a result he doesn't really like going out in cars - but - he does love exploring and new sniffs and cafes so he tolerates cars.   I think he is happier without a car and walking everywhere and, he is a very good dog as he will sit outside a shop and wait for me (His size and breed seems to put people off approaching unless I am there to confirm it is ok).

Watty1

Had a complete meltdown this morning and sobbed into the Charming Cob's mane.  I think the last week has overwhelmed me.  Very behind at work and everything just seemed to much to cope with.

Also, I seem to have spent £350 on some secondhand jumps and poles which now need collecting. It seemed a good idea at the time - which just shows how addled my mind must have been.

PennysIntoPounds

We all need a good cry now and then. Now have a lovely rest of the day filled only with satisfying and pleasing things x

KajiKita

Sending you huge comforting hugs x I’m glad that Charming Cob could be there for you ❤️
You have been so strong and kind for VNM and his mother whilst still recovering yourself.
Now that you’ve see that you need some self care, what will you do for yourself? 

KK 

WelshmansDaughter

Better out than in. Applies to farts and tears.

KajiKita

WelshmansDaughter said:

Better out than in. Applies to farts and tears.

I’ve woken up the Chloe cat laughing at that!! 😂😂😂😂

KK

debtfreewannabe321

WelshmansDaughter said:

Better out than in. Applies to farts and tears.

Totally agree 

Cherryfudge

WattyDog has my sympathy - both on the car sickness and the exploring cafes! I wonder if he does better with diesel than petrol, as I do?

It's hardly surprising all the stress translated into tears. I hope the VNM's mum soon settles into her new situation and you and the VNM can begin to relax, but in the meantime be gentle on yourself. Aren't animals just the best listeners? And I'm sure the jumps and poles will get good use and be fun for both you and the horses. Possibly for WattyDog too. (I have to stop myself putting @ WattyDog - does he read these pages?)