Money Moral Dilemma: Should we pay for my eldest stepdaughter to go on holiday with us?

Exodi

Missi_xxx said:

My 2 daughters aged 20 and 23 know they have to pay their own way for future family holidays and have their own spending money. The earliest you can have these discussions the better. Best of luck 

Who picks the holiday? Have you been on another family holiday since deciding this arrangement?

BungalowBel

I don't think either the 19- or  20- year old should have the entire holiday paid.  They should at least give a contribution. (Unless of course their father has decided that if he wants them to come on holiday with him, then he will have to pay for it - in which case I think you are just going to have to go with it).