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An in-between phase
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Haha cheers chums. @KajiKita we much prefer messages to her coming round but I didn't see her msg until the next day as I've previously muted notifications from her. She is now blocked due to...
'Sil' came round hammering on the door being aggressive and unhinged, accused me of having contributed nothing to the build, and of not being in contact with Mr PIP's family and said Mr PIP is running out of excuses for me! Mr PIP also thinks her behaviour was utterly bizarre and doesn't mind when I don't join in with family things due to having a literal medical chronic pain condition.
We're also all baffled as to why she thinks it's any of her business how other adults spend their free time. When I said we're in contact regularly (Mr PIP's mum and I regularly msg back and forth) she called me a liar 😂 I really think she might actually be a narcissist, she cannot imagine that anything could occur that she's not privy to
Other things dun:
Half wussy situps
Steps getting essentials
Bit of cleaning
Entered some competitions
SurveyAs ever, I am declining any bad vibes on a Sunday! 🍻
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'aggressive safety shot' Ken Doherty2 -
What an awful piece of work she isnn
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One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 13 months left.1 -
If the gathering happens I can dust off my didgeridoo?
Debts 04/01/25 01/09/26
CC1 £14,122.71 -
CC2 - £6,975
CC3 £6,112.60 £6,495
1st Direct CC £176.03 £151.44
CC total £20,411.34 £13,621.44
OD £1100 £0
Car loan £4,000 £2,400
1st Direct Loan £10,684.44 £3,825
Total £36,195.78 £19,846.44
EF £2,800
HF £3
EB £2502 -
I'm shocked that you've allowed your didgeridoo to get dusty 😉
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SIL sounds like a real treat.
"Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee0 -
And if you put a large gin my way, I could stand on a chair & recite 'The Pobble who has no toes', possibly (depending on size of gin & robustness of chair) followed by a rendition of 'The Wom-pom Song'.
I have experience of SiL issues.
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2026's challenges: 1) To rebuild our Emergency Fund to at least £5k.
2) To read 50 books (12/50) 3) The Re-Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
Remember....if you have to put it on a credit card, extend your overdraft or take out a loan to buy whatever it is, you probably can't afford it, as that's not your money, it's somebody else's!0
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