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An in-between phase

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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,841 Forumite
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    That sounds positive with the builder - althiigh no more than he should be doing! Hopefully at the worst it will end up with a compromise that you can accept, at least. 
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  • KajiKita
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    Glad there has been some sensible movement from the builder. 

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,890 Ambassador
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    Loved Riot Women. 
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  • PennysIntoPounds
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    edited 18 October at 10:13PM
    Really enjoyed it though was not expecting to cry quite so many times! @lucielle @KajiKita @beanielou
    And cannot stop singing Violet, which is unfortunate both for my throat and anyone who can hear me 😁

    We'll see what occurs @EssexHebridean, the place is so small and dark (surrounded by neighbouring walls and garages, and we had to dig down to get planning permission to not intrude on other houses) that having bad stairs would really make the place feel and look so much sh*tter so we feel stressed but justified in digging our heels in as far as we can!

    If we need to live with a compromise then so it goes, I just want to not. be. f*cking. ignored.
    I can't think why Riot Women chimed with me 😂
  • KajiKita
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    Really enjoyed it though was not expecting to cry quite so many times! @lucielle @KajiKita @beanielou
    And cannot stop singing Violet, which is unfortunate both for my throat and anyone who can hear me 😁

    We'll see what occurs @EssexHebridean, the place is so small and dark (surrounded by neighbouring walls and garages, and we had to dig down to get planning permission to not intrude on other houses) that having bad stairs would really make the place feel and look so much sh*tter so we feel stressed but justified in digging our heels in as far as we can!

    If we need to live with a compromise then so it goes, I just want to not. be. f*cking. ignored.
    I can't think why Riot Women chimed with me 😂
    Not laughing out here. At all. Honest! 😂😂😂😂😂❤️😊

    KK
    As at 15.10.25:
    - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £229,702
    - OPs to mortgage = £12,345 Estd. interest saved = £5,863 to date
    Fixed rate 3.85% ends October 2030

    Read 62 books of target 52 in 2025, as @ 4th November 
    Produce tracker: £426 of £300 in 2025

    Watch your thoughts, they become your words.
    Watch your words, they become your actions. 
    Watch your actions, they become your reality. 
  • PennysIntoPounds
    PennysIntoPounds Posts: 5,076 Forumite
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    Well my chronic pain condition has gone insane for no reason other than 'existing' so I'm feeling a bit dread-ful about lacking in energy and time tomorrow what with everything taking triple the time, including e.g. the enormous and complex job of taking a sip of water 🙄
    Mr PIP offered to put some ketchup on my plate during dinner after seeing me puzzling over opening the lid at various angles like a condiment is a rubiks cube. I do not have high hopes of productivity tomorrow, which is especially annoying as I had put 'do the things' on the to-do list 

  • beanielou
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    Keep plodding. The stress most likely won’t be helping x 
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  • Watty1
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    As I catch up with the planning and building tales here, I really want to (a) get planning permission - but (b) never build. 
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,481 Forumite
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    Aw sorry you have had a flareup, not surprising given the stairs saga and general build shenanigans. The To Do list can wait. Take care, read, and give yourself multiple treats x
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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