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  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 6,749 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear your news.  Sending much love.
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

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  • foxgloves
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    Awww, it's so sad to lose a dear fur friend, PiP. I was sorry to hear your news.
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  • Crazycatlady2
    Crazycatlady2 Posts: 1,073 Forumite
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    Sorry to read of your news, be kind to yourself x 
  • Baileys_Babe
    Baileys_Babe Posts: 6,257 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear your news, it must be such a shock to you both. Be kind to you both as you grieve 🤗
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  • Chrystal
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    So sorry for  your loss.  Sending gentle (((hugs))) X
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  • ladyholly
    ladyholly Posts: 3,917 Forumite
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    edited 20 July 2024 at 9:59PM
    I am so sorry to hear about your cat. Just remember she will always be in your heart even if you can no longer see her.
    I know it sounds silly but we still see some of our dogs. Not as we would when they were alive but a flash in the corner of your eye and a shadow that shouldnt be there. I am sure it is the same with cats.
  • beanielou
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    It really is the same ladtholly.  I often see my beloved boys. 
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  • WinterWarrior
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    I’m so sorry. It’s such a terrible loss 😢
    I have also seen a few of my cats come back to visit . One was very clear, just as I woke up…she was washing her bottom with her leg in the air by the side of my bed. I blinked and she’d gone, but I was so grateful for the visit. I think they know we did the best we could for them xx 
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  • dawnybabes
    dawnybabes Posts: 3,338 Forumite
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    Awww so sorry, we lost my kitty a few weeks ago to illness abd  I’m still looking for her every night and when I come home.  X  
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  • So sorry to hear about your cat. You saved her from a lot of suffering though by your decision. Sending you many (((hugs))).
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