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An in-between phase

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  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,180 Forumite
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    Oh PIP ☹️ Only natural to feel this way. Hope the sun shines on your life soon. The council fiasco must be incredibly frustrating. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Blackcats
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    The uncertainty from the council is so unfair.  You aren't large scale developers seeking to cram 80 matchbox sized houses onto a pocket handkerchief sized plot - you are local people seeking to use land that already belongs to the family.  There should be a section of the planning department that is dedicated to supporting folk like you and MrPIP to stay locally and enrich the community.  The "let's support our local folk to live locally department".  
    Hope that spending some time south of the river with MrPIP cheers you up.
  • redofromstart
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    Sending hugs and the other half of a pack of biscuits (assuming you havent read the miserable no sugar book).  
  • KajiKita
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    Hugs x

    Yo! Universe?? Over here please! PiP needs some help here. Come share some joy, light, progression and growth here, please 🙏 🌞

    KK
    As at 15.08.25:
    - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £232,244
    - OPs to mortgage = £12,148  Interest saved £5,738 to date
    Fixed rate 3.85% ends October 2030

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  • Thank you all, you're bloody lovely, and your kind words go a long way x
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  • foxgloves
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    edited 23 March 2024 at 1:30PM
    @PiP, it's not fair, it's not fun & if the universe can't arrange for you to hear something positive, win something or find at least a fifty quid note sitting abandoned on a wall over the coming week, I am going to have something to say about it!
    Take care & Soot is sending a purr.....well, I suspect the purr may well be him working up to trying to score his dinner 5 hours early, but I will send it (the purr!) by proxy.
    F x
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    2) To read 100 books (36/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 7.7kg/30kg

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  • Thanks @foxgloves (and Soot!)

    Somewhat tired. Mrs Clomp not helping. I counted seven different clomping incidents last night. Like the opposite of counting sheep. A very good reminder of the good aspects to moving into family friends flat!

    Emotionally am a little better, had a catch up with a best friend yesterday and she was like 'yeah all of those things are sh*t and stressful and upsetting' so at least I feel like I'm not being stupid or melodramatic, and just have to allow myself a bit of time being low and slow if needed

    Mr PIP has been very productive and done a run, hoovered the whole flat, and tackled the massive pile of washing up.
    I have eaten a sossidge sandwich.

    Other small bits:

    Tidying
    Admin
    Opiniumiumium survey
    Lidl receipt survey
    Sains receipt survey
    Comping

    Half wussy situps
    Shower and hairwash...
    Hairdryer kaput

    Entered a competition for a hairdryer.

    Walk up high street, Lidl bits and then Sainsers for loose carrots. Have committed to making a nutritious and comforting meal tomorrow. We'll see.

    Couple of beers. Appreciated the man talking to the giant iris in the pub garden. Mr PIP and I went through the cruises catalogue I keep being sent. We enjoy pointing out all the ways in which it looks terrible. (It's effing freezing in London, and you want how much to go to the actual Antarctic? No thank you)

    Saturday night dinner is tasty freezer leftover pasta for me and yellow sticker pasta dish for Mr PIP, with our indulgence of a garlic flatbread to go with it
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Glad you’re in a slightly better place. 

    Boo to Mrs Clomp - what the heck is she on with and why doesn’t she sleep like normal people do!!

    Ooh garlic flatbread not had that for ages 😋 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Watty1
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    Garlic flatbread yum.... See it is the little things :)

    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • The garlic flatbread was very tasty @Sun_Addict and @Watty1 as was the ton of sugar I consumed for dessert!


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