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Escape to the country & living off savings

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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,925 Forumite
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    So very, very sorry to hear about your dad. His comment is lovely and revealing of his character. Thinking of you and sending love
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  • MeandO
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    I am so sorry to read yours news, lovely. I am sat here shedding a tear for you and your Dad. Sending you both much love. xx
    Mortgage at highest: £132,500 Now: £51,289.85
    Mortgage OP’s: £26,190.17
    OP targets 2026:
    Sub a/c 1: £788.54/£2402.79
    Sub a/c 2 £1479/£1479 ✅
    Sub a/c 3: £1062.15/£1062.15 ✅
    Sub a/c 4: £750/£750 ✅
  • jwil
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    I am so sorry to hear about DF.  Thinking of you all xx
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  • sheilavw
    sheilavw Posts: 1,712 Forumite
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    So sorry to learn about your DF x
  • southern_chick
    southern_chick Posts: 559 Forumite
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    edited 14 July 2025 at 6:48PM
    Thinking of you all. Take care of yourself xx
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  • Time2count
    Time2count Posts: 181 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry to hear your news SYA, like others have said at least you've had this time together since you retired and you're near family and friends who can support you during this difficult time.
    Sending love 
  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 2,032 Forumite
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    I think your Dad has probably had a life well lived SYA, which is a wonderful thing to have achieved, and from what you have told us he is a very special type of person.  I hope you can get him home and that he has a peaceful passing when the time comes. 
    I'm thinking of you all and sending gentle (((hugs))) XXXX
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  • Tresinia511
    Tresinia511 Posts: 395 Forumite
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    Sya, hugs to you and your lovely Dad xxx
  • MeandO
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    Sending lots of love to you all xx
    Mortgage at highest: £132,500 Now: £51,289.85
    Mortgage OP’s: £26,190.17
    OP targets 2026:
    Sub a/c 1: £788.54/£2402.79
    Sub a/c 2 £1479/£1479 ✅
    Sub a/c 3: £1062.15/£1062.15 ✅
    Sub a/c 4: £750/£750 ✅
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