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Breakdown of relationship, house and rental nightmare
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Oh skemp if i'd known I'm that close! What a schlep for you to stay with family.
I think I know the exact area you are referring to that shes ended up in
Great to hear shes gone, breathe deep & make sure to do something enjoyable with your kids- Mortgage: 1st one down, 2nd also busted
- Student Loan gone
Swagbucks, Mingle, GiffGaff, Prolific, Qmee & Quidco; thank you MSE every little bit helps1 -
skemp1 said:Oh! One other thing!
She hasn't offered up the information about where she has moved to, but I know anyway as her daughter is "friends" with my niece on snapchat and apparently there's some location thing on there or something?
They are living in one of the roughest parts of Norwich above or next to a kebab shop. This area really is very rough indeed.
Do you believe in Karma? I think I might be coming round to the idea.2 -
Glad to hear you're back at home and it worked out OK. It sounds as though you were very unlucky, as others have said, don't let it sour you against all relationships, most people aren't like that (You're much more likely to hear on places like this about the things that go wrong, people don't post to say everything is going swimmingly, generally!)All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)4
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trix-a-belle said:Oh skemp if i'd known I'm that close! What a schlep for you to stay with family.
I think I know the exact area you are referring to that shes ended up in
Great to hear shes gone, breathe deep & make sure to do something enjoyable with your kids
Yep! It's Marlpit she's ended up. Oh well, not my problem anymore! Thank god!
Yes, had my family up from Essex and they have been helping me to redecorate and make the place ours again. Been a tough slog, but I'm getting there!4 -
As for the relationship stuff.
I've had enough of it, for now at least. Just want to be "me" and concentrate on the kids and work as there is a lot going on at the moment.
One day though maybe I will dip my toe in again. it will be tentative though and no way am I living anyone for a long, long time!6
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