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  • I know what you mean...M&S is always full of old couples and the man is always wandering round with his hands behind his back. I hate having to shop with my DH, and he's not even retired yet
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  • kayannie
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    I hate supermarket shopping with DH in tow. It takes twice as long & costs twice as much!  Luckily for me, since covid he's paranoid of catching something so even if we go together in the car, he sits in the car & waits for me!
    KA
  • Had to laugh at the 'Men Going Shopping' comments!🤣. Makes one feel glad one is single!  I must say though most of the men I've known, and know, would rather poke their eyes out with a stick than go shopping with their other half or indeed go shopping generally!  Maybe it's mainly the retired men that do it and haven't figured out what to do with themselves in retirement as yet.....
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  • Cherryfudge
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    I sometimes feel sorry for men who are being harried by their wives while out shopping, but the ones you describe are hilarious. If I'm bored I could go down to the Food Hall and play 'spot the tartan bag / shelf blocker'. Three points for the bag, 2 for the shelf blocker, one for 'Yes, dear'.

    I'll second the idea of putting office clothes out the night before: it saves thinking in the morning (never my strong point) and might buy you a bit more freedom.
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  • Glad you got out, were you in stealth mode?!  I love BnM, but why oh why do I always spend way more than I think I'm going to and see things I never knew I wanted......one of life's mysteries!  
  • Hope you feel better soon.  Last new year, we both had covid. Its horrible when you don't feel like doing anything or celebrating.  
    Does sound odd about Mr SA getting up in the night.  Hopefully you can get to the bottom of it.  

    I have put Prosecco in the fridge for tonight as well, but we will have a glass early on and be in bed way before 12.  I imagine the fireworks will wake us up though.  They should be banned at new year.
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

    LBM 2015 - debt £57K / Now £28,744....its going down

     Mortgage Free December 9th 2024! 
    18mths ahead of schedule.  Since 2022 we paid over £15K in OPs.

    Challenges

    EF #68  £410/£3000
    .
    Fiver Friday '25 #10 £15

    Studies/surveys  July £58.64

    Decluttering items 748

    Books read    12
    Jigsaws done  8

    My debt free diary...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6396218/we-will-get-this-debt-d£own-the-savings-up


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