Progress not Perfection

warby68

Your SIL must be on another planet - good to hear you closed her down. The only thing I can think of is self-delusion. She has convinced herself he has lots of care and you have lots of help so its ok for her to do nada.

So glad to hear that both are on the mend. Whilst I hope they recover quickly, I also hope they stay in hospital for a sensible time for both them and you, especially you.

Hope. you have a restorative weekend ( I can't say restful or relaxing because that isn't you !!) x

Sun_Addict

Morning everyone, happy Saturday.

What a beautiful sunny start to the day. Gutted I missed the Northern Lights last night, I was asleep. Saw some beautiful photos taken locally. Would’ve had a brilliant view being so high up. 

Had to let the cats out at 4.30 am as they were being really naughty especially the young one. 

Weigh in Saturday and have lost 1.5lbs. So that’s my holiday gain gone. Must be due to stress as I’ve just been grabbing whatever is quick to eat, although it has been relatively healthy. 

I want to have a hospital free day today. I have loads to do. I don’t plan going until tomorrow. SIL tried to make me feel guilty but I reminded her I also have DD in a different hospital, why should Mr SA be prioritised! She reckons she can’t go as she has her grandchildren staying but if she’s that concerned she could leave them with hubby for an hour, she lives very close to the hospital. I’ve told Mr SA he can’t expect visitors every single day. 

I want to nip to the big Mr T with the soft plastic recycling then do my ClubFit class. I really must clean/tidy the house, get out my summer clothes and put thick winter clothes away. I always leave out a few warm clothes just in case. 

Going to make a veggie lasagne for tonight’s dinner to have with some salad. 

jwil

SIL needs to wind her neck in!  

Hope you enjoy your weekend

Sunshine_girl2

Have a peaceful Saturday, you certainly deserve it. 

Humdinger1

Your SIL has a flaming cheek @Sun_Addict! She plainly feels guilty but does indeed need to mind her own business!  Or help regularly...that's a good way to get rid of guilt.  On the other hand, you- as ever- are utterly awe-inspiring.   Love Humdinger xx 

WinterWarrior

I agree with everyone about SIL. You can’t just be a fair weather sister and pop up when you feel like it and still expect to be taken seriously! She’s either in or she’s out…and she has chosen out 😖

IzzyBee

Enjoy the peace SA tell your SIL to either mind her own business or do something what a cheek 

EssexHebridean

SIL will be what she is, smile and wave… and let her toxicity pass right over your head. 😉

beanielou

EssexHebridean said:

SIL will be what she is, smile and wave… and let her toxicity pass right over your head. 😉

Love this so much 

Makingabobor2

EssexHebridean said:

SIL will be what she is, smile and wave… and let her toxicity pass right over your head. 😉

Exactly. We have to do this with DH's parents & his sister...lol