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  • ladyholly
    ladyholly Posts: 3,922 Forumite
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    SA I am so sorry that things are very stressful at th moment. It is hard enough for you without the lack of understanding and empathy from Mr SA.
    Hopefully the hospital will be able to properly traet your dd this time and you will be able to visit her to reassure yourself even though you know she is in the right place.
    I am not surprised you havent done much as stress takes away any semblance of being able to achieve properly as your mind will be elsewhere. I think you should visit dd asap just to assure yourself she is ok. We never stop worrying about our children bno matter how old they are.
  • beanielou
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    Glad that your DD is finally on a ward. Her pain level must be high. Poor her c
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  • Moneywhizz
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    Sorry to read that your daughter has been readmitted to hospital. I hope they get to the bottom of things this time and don't send her home again without an answer. At least you are at home now and don't have the added worry of how your pets were. Fingers crossed for a positive outcome. 
  • weenancyinAmerica
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    I hope they have checked for stomach ulcers. That was my problem and I was so tired all of the time. My hemoglobin level fell very low - had to have three pints of  blood. 
  • Sun_Addict
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    I hope they have checked for stomach ulcers. That was my problem and I was so tired all of the time. My hemoglobin level fell very low - had to have three pints of  blood. 
    This is probably highly likely as she’s been having treatment for acid reflux for some time. She takes after Mr SA’s side of the family who suffer/suffered from a wealth of digestive type issues. 
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  • Cherryfudge
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    I have a story re holiday weight gain. Several years ago we went to Cyprus for 2 weeks, I went in the hotel gym every morning at 7am, I did the water aerobics every day and I kept doing the water run up a steep hill. I tried to eat as healthily as possible. Anyway went I went back to WW and weighed in I’d put on 5lbs. I was so shocked I had to buy myself a pair of sandals and matching handbag from Cl@rkes as a consolation 🤣 This was back in my spendy days it wouldn’t happen now. 

    Are you sure it wasn't muscle gain from new forms of exercise? :) Still, obviously you needed the sandals and handbag because that really helps with weight. :):smile:

    Sorry about the man flu. Buy him some lip balm? A beer? 

    Enjoy the family visits later, and I hope DD is doing okay.
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  • EssexHebridean
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    Oh poor MrSA - and of course if he’s poorly, or has been, he definitely can’t go near the hospital, what a shame for him… 😈 
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,468 Ambassador
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    Oh no poor Mr SA. Not just flu. The dreaded man flu!! 
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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