We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Progress not Perfection

Options
1307308310312313867

Comments

  • I know what you mean about physical shops. We buy mostly online now, apart from the small indie gift shop in our village and the "sell everything cheapie shop", the farm shop, charity shops and the odd visit to Ad!*.Oh and Primarni when In can get there, as they always have stock...lol.   I use Mr S online now and all the GKs presents were ordered online, a lot of them 2nd hand.  
    10 years, wow, hope he continues to stay in remission.  My MIL started her chemo 10 years ago last week and fingers crossed, she is still going strong and in remission. But at her age, who knows what could happen. 
    Have a relaxing evening
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

    LBM 2015 - debt £57K / Now £28,744....its going down

     Mortgage Free December 9th 2024! 
    18mths ahead of schedule.  Since 2022 we paid over £15K in OPs.

    Challenges

    EF #68  £450/£3000
    .
    Fiver Friday '25 #10 £15

    Studies/surveys  July £72.46

    Decluttering items 750

    Books read    12
    Jigsaws done  8

    My debt free diary...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6396218/we-will-get-this-debt-d£own-the-savings-up


  • Cherryfudge
    Cherryfudge Posts: 13,140 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Thanks for the link, @Sun_Addict. What a harrowing time you had. And what lovely support you had from fellow MSEers at the time.

    So now you're into the second decade post-illness. You've come such a long way. It really makes me think about the importance of normality and thankfulness for everyday blessings.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 23,970 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Less steps today only 21,000 😆 I will get a more relaxing day tomorrow honestly. 

    Picked up two large joints of meat from Mr T half price which I’ll cut up and freeze for Mr SA. 

    When DS and the GKs arrived Mr SA put a programme on he’d recorded about someone donating their body to medical science and showing a live dissection 🤦‍♀️ Well DGD was absolutely mesmerised by it and kept shushing anyone who dared to speak. It was so sad though the woman was just in her early 30s and absolutely riddled with cancer. 

    In other morbid programme news can highly recommend Cause of Death on Channel 5. It’s really interesting. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Cherryfudge
    Cherryfudge Posts: 13,140 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    It was good to see names of people who are still around on the forum as well as some I didn't recognise. I don't think people realise how much a kind word helps.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,400 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    It was good to see names of people who are still around on the forum as well as some I didn't recognise. I don't think people realise how much a kind word helps.
    A couple are sadly no longer with us -  Taxi and Kissjen 🙁
    Just came to say that.
    Have skimmed through part of your old diary.
    Hope Taxi & KissJen are both flying high.
    Cancer is ****
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 23,970 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Morning all. 

    Have been up for over an hour reading, drinking coffee and listening to relaxing music. The cats have been fed and have gone out. I think early mornings are my favourite part of the day - well at weekends, definitely not on work days! 

    Should be a NSD today. No plans to go anywhere apart from taking the dog out. I quite fancy going for a street walk to look at Christmas decorations rather than a muddy park walk. The dog would prefer the muddy park though 😆

    I can’t believe it’s 10 December already. Time is flying by! Received two Christmas cards yesterday so really must write mine out today and post them - all seven of them! 

    Looking forward to putting my feet up and watching Love Actually this afternoon. I’ve saved some cava from last night for the occasion. 

    Making roast gunpowder cauliflower & lentils for tonight’s dinner. I couldn’t find gunpowder spice anywhere so am making my own. There’s quite a range of recipes for it out there so have selected the most simple one. I will be cutting up and freezing the beef I bought for Mr SA yesterday so will pop a portion in the slow cooker for his dinner. Got leftover pizza and salad for my lunch. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 23,970 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    https://www.waitrose.com/ecom/recipe/roast-gunpowder-cauliflower-lentils

    I’m leaving out the serving of coconut yogurt and almonds and just going for a mini naan bread and coriander. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Keedie
    Keedie Posts: 2,840 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Just catching up on your diary @Sun_Addict, and wanted to say congratulations to Mr SA for reaching 10 years in remission, as it's an admirable achievement. 

    I still can't get over your step count! If mine reaches over 1,000 I feel all excited 🤦🏾‍♀️. I really must move around more 😬.

    I think I'm going to start working on Christmas 2024 savings as it all caught up with me this year, and I wasn't as prepared as I wanted to be.
    Debt Free Diary:- The Mental Debt Struggle
    (Original Debt on 15/07/2016 was £33,056.76) 🙈 but Debt Free on 09/02/2025 🎉
    2025 SAVINGS: Emergency Fund (£604.30/£5,000) 12.09% saved
    2025 CHALLENGES: #16 Sealed Pot Challenge ~ 18 || #9 50 Envelope Challenge 22/50
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 350.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 243.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.