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  • RelievedSheff
    RelievedSheff Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    Hope Mr SA is feeling better soon.

    I'm sure he appreciates what you do for him in his own way.
  • Do you have a laptop SA? If so you could always watch iplayer with headphones in when the sound gets ridiculously low. Can MrSA hear it at that volume, or is he missing vital bits himself just to annoy you? He’s clearly trying to bully you in the few ways he has left 😕
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,456 Ambassador
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    You are so much a better woman than me.
    Toodle off & leave him & your DD to it! 
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • Oh my gosh, sorry to hear you had a big argument. Strangely enough I had a massive argument with my DH on Sunday, even to the point where I asked him to get the suitcases out of the attic . Luckily we're ok now
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

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  • ladyholly
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    I am sorry that Mr SA has been so difficult. You are so good to him and take all the responsibility and get so little back from him except pester and criticism it must be very hard not to just pack your bags and leave him to it. I think I might have gone a long while ago. Do you get any help from your dd? If not perhaps you could start asking her to take some of the weight.
  • evebeme
    evebeme Posts: 95 Forumite
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    Is there any way you can get a generic remote and conceal it from him? Also, just found this article on lip balm. My DD went through a period of applying it constantly which made me go looking for answers. https://www.epiphanydermatology.com/blog/lip-balm-addiction/

  • Sun_Addict
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    evebeme said:
    Is there any way you can get a generic remote and conceal it from him? Also, just found this article on lip balm. My DD went through a period of applying it constantly which made me go looking for answers. https://www.epiphanydermatology.com/blog/lip-balm-addiction/

    Thanks I’ll show him that article. Interesting about the toothpaste as my previous hairdresser was allergic to an ingredient in it that caused sore lips. I think his reliance on the lip balm started when he was working outside in all weathers and got chapped lips. It’s become more of a habit now. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Sun_Addict
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    Morning happy February. 

    Working in the office today, it’s really quiet hardly anyone here. I’d forgotten about the train, teacher and civil servant strikes. Had to push my way through a picket line to get in the building. 

    Got a really busy day so need to get on. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,456 Ambassador
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    EEek to the picket line!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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