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Progress not Perfection

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  • Makingabobor2
    Makingabobor2 Posts: 4,698 Forumite
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    I really don't know how you put up with Mr SA. I am pretty sure I couldn't.

    Making the debt go down and savings go up

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  • beanielou
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    I absolutely couldn’t. There would be a murder. Taggert style.

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  • foxgloves
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    Yes, agree. Mr SA occasionally puts me in mind of a long-ago flatmate who thought they 'did everything' around the house. So I simply stopped doing all the domestic chores I was doing each week & the complaint quietly went away. He doesn't know how lucky he is having someone run around after him all day, I'm sure I couldn't - I'd be on too short a fuse.

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  • liselle
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    I can’t stand the smell of Br-t, think it’s because men used to smother themselves in it……Old Spice, on the other hand, is nice- quiet, understated.

  • Sun_Addict
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    Oh you lot do make me laugh 😆 I really don’t know how I put up with him to be honest. I do have a superpower of being able to completely switch off from things so maybe this is the answer. There have been times when I’ve lost my patience with him though 😖

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  • PennysIntoPounds
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    Ask him if he'd like a divorce for his birthday present 😇😂

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase/p1

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