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  • CRANKY40
    CRANKY40 Posts: 5,898 Forumite
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    I haven't done any housework either. As soon as I hoover/tidy up all my House Troll's friends come round and I may as well not have bothered. I have trained them to put their cups in the dishwasher and sometimes they put the cushions and blankets in the right places but I've decided that I'm having Christmas holidays too. I'll sort it out when they're back in college. 

                                                                          
  • KajiKita
    KajiKita Posts: 7,354 Forumite
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    That sounds like a constructive day to be fair. The dishes will happen …. 🤷‍♀️😉

    Happy Birthday for tomorrow!! 😊🥳🍾❤️

    KK
    As at 15.06.25:
    - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £234,698
    - OPs to mortgage = £11,338 Interest saved £5225 to date
    Fixed rate 3.85% ends January 2030

    Read 33 books of target 52 in 2025, as @ 6th July
    Produce tracker: £201 of £300 in 2025

    Watch your thoughts, they become your words.
    Watch your words, they become your actions. 
    Watch your actions, they become your reality. 
  • Thank you ❤️
    We had a quiet day, celebrating next weekend as my husband will be on his treatment break. 
    Widowed November 2024
    navigating whatever fresh hell this ‘new’ life is, as best I can, for our kids and in his memory.  




  • Blackcats
    Blackcats Posts: 3,835 Forumite
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    I hope you had a quiet but good birthday.

    I think you are right to do what you can around the house and not fret if things don't get done.  I was reminded of Days Like This by Van Morrison as an antidote to bleurgh days. 

    I've seen you on the grocery challenge thread - I love it over there - it's transformed my food spending.


  • WinterWarrior
    WinterWarrior Posts: 6,086 Forumite
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    Belated birthday wishes for yesterday. I hope the wait for results flies by. 
    Not all who wander are lost - J.R.R.Tolkien
    🌊 A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor 🌊

    My WW and friends diary is here 😁 … 
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6259606/must-try-harder/p1

  • MrsCautious
    MrsCautious Posts: 1,621 Forumite
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    Hello LankyLarry, I just followed your link from the Make £10 a Day challenge, I’m so very sorry to hear of all you are going through, it’s a place I’ve been xxx MacMillan were bloody brilliant you know xxx 
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 23,890 Forumite
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    Sending positive vibes for Tuesday 🙏
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • KajiKita
    KajiKita Posts: 7,354 Forumite
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    Sending huge hugs to both of you and lots of good wishes for a good result on Tuesday.

    Well done for getting out and enjoying the time with him.

    KK x
    As at 15.06.25:
    - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £234,698
    - OPs to mortgage = £11,338 Interest saved £5225 to date
    Fixed rate 3.85% ends January 2030

    Read 33 books of target 52 in 2025, as @ 6th July
    Produce tracker: £201 of £300 in 2025

    Watch your thoughts, they become your words.
    Watch your words, they become your actions. 
    Watch your actions, they become your reality. 
  • You are doing so well sending you lots of positive vibes and gentle hugs x
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