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What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US flylady idea - but we work on the principle that housework is not fun, it's boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately, necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
You're more than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally, include some mention of flying.
Thank you Valli for last week's thread.
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should have some Flylady-related content! (i.e. it should be on-topic)
The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please don’t stress about catching up.
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week -
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there,
loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis
like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds,
vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in
the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish
& swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed
plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag
and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish,
recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering
your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as
a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a
daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run
around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising
or ironing.. other music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing machine
TD ~ Tumble dryer
SC ~ Slowcooker
BM ~ Breadmaker
DW ~ Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on bottom and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other
not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear
husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other half/significant
other
NN ~ nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever)
~ person in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the
month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~ Editted to add
gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that
appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not
a whole room) like a chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- thats your
first 'dot' - totally clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be
there - deal with what you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then
if you have time move on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just
like a dot to dot puzzle, you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room.
The trick is to keep each dot tidy until you get them all joined up!
RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room
that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be used to its potential!
Click here to read Toots wonderful welcome guide
Ok here goes this week! Monday ~ Living room, Hall and Downstairs Loo
Level one
Hoover/wipe the sofas
S&S the sink and toilet
Level Two
Dust the electricals
Hoover the floor and mop too
Level Three
HH tidying, decluttering, sorting
Wipe some paintwork, skirting boards, behind the toilet/sink
Extras
Order pet supplies or make vet appointmentsClean out pets/pet beddingCheck you know when sports day/end of term isNo pets or kids?read a book or do some craft
Tuesday - Kitchen and Dining Room
Level One
Hoover/mop the
floor
Level Two
Clean the sink
and shine the taps
Sort out and
wipe out the fridge
Level Three
Clean the WM
filters and drawer
Wash the
window
Wipe over the
hob and oven door
Extras
- Clean some shoes
- HHI
- Deal with a hotspot
Wednesday - Master Bedroom and Landing
Level One
Change the
bed, hoover the mattress, turn it if you can
Level Two
Hoover the
stairs, landing and bedroom
Wipe the
window ledges
Level Three
Dust any dusty
bits
Deal with
hotspots/floorobes
Wipe the
bedstead
Extras
- Arrange for boiler service or chimney sweep
- Recycle any paper/magazines lying around
Thursday - Bathrooms
Level One
Clean toilets
and sinks
Level Two
Change the
towels
Hoover and wipe
the floor
Wipe the
splashbacks
Level Three
Clean out the
plug holes
Shine the
mirrors
Clean the bath
and shower
Extras
- HHPaperwork
- Declutter a drawer
- Me Me Me time
Friday - Children's Bedrooms or spare rooms/rooms of Doom
Level One
Strip, wash and replace bedding
Level Two
Hoover floor
HH tidying or decluttering
Level Three
Wipe the skirting boards
Wash an item of soft furnishings
Clear, then dust a flat surface (or 2)
Extras
- Find a new recipe to use
- Sort out your receipts/purse
- Check dates on passports/MoTs/insurance etc
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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TY for Fred...
I have a super busy week.. and I am painting the front bay..
LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14Hope to be debt free until the day I dieMortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)9 -
Thanks Natty, I'm in.Spend less now, work less later.11
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I'm in as well, thank you for the lists.
Blood test in the morning / early afternoon 1.53, what sort of time is thatI bet they are running late. It had better be better than the awful results form April.
OH is home, very tired, and very oddly wearing a work shirt, he has no reason as to why when I asked, or even why he took it.
Off to wash up
Breast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 291,815/1,000,000Sun, Sea11 -
Me too. Thank you for the lists.9
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Evening all. Thank you for the threads and company.
Up at 6am. Did test. Made cuppa and ironed work tops.
Dusted top of wardrobe as DS1 borrowed the large case that sits on there.Rest of bedroom dusted and all upstairs windows cleaned.
Hour gardening done
Rang some relatives. It is hard keeping in touch with this full time work malarkey.
2x wm done
and a nap had10 -
Hi all, thanks Natty
Missed a week due to exams but hoping to catch up this week. Determined to declutter. Have a plan to throw/give away 10 things a day until end of July when my Dad and SM come and stay. 😬😬😬
Started off today with 6 items of clothing (mostly 8yo), 2 books and 2 plant pots. Surely this will make difference if I keep at it?
Also changed the beds, dusted around and hoovered underneath 🤢10 -
Thank you Natty, I will do as much of the lists as I can this week.
Busy morning at church.
Food shop done.
Lunch eaten.
Nap had.
Rosie's walk done.
Evening meal cooked and eaten.
Flowers "arranged" in vases (not up to Narc0's standards)
Shopping put away.
Not much else achieved!
Tomorrow I must go into the loft and find the photo album from my childhood, as we're having a belated celebration of the Platinum Jubilee at our Old Wives' meeting tomorrow evening - complete with trifle made by another member- and are supposed to be bringing along photos and other memorabilia of the Coronation and previous Jubilees.
Hope everyone has a good week with nice warm weather. I must remember to water the plant pots!
xx9 -
thanks for lists. Hugs to all. I've been in lurk mode for a few weeks; Covid seems to have really messed up my whole system. Eventually shook off the sinus clogging, serious tiredness remained, then had abdominal pain and back pain together which worried me enough to contact GP the day before the jubilee. Full marks for them; I rang (a gibbering wreck as I am terrified of doctors and dislike phones) at 12.30; by 1.45 the doctor rang me back, had a good chat then said I could come in to the surgery at 3pm. Then followed poking and prodding and me being incoherent answering questions, came away with meds for suspected IBS and suspected UTI. Meds now finished and have to go back for tests/discussion some time when I can face it. Still sleep a lot. The whole lot has not improved MH at all, plus my drum teacher is leaving (after only 2 months) so yet more change.
However, I am now determined to pick myself up. House looks like cobweb city so I hereby announce that I will diligently do at least level 1 every day this week. I'm back at zumba, swimming and did tiny weights at body pump this week so plan to build up again (and must lose weight). Have booked 5 days away in a cottage/flat in the Peak District for July, so need to pull myself together in time.
1 report to write up, 1 assessment to do on Wednesday then that could be it work-wise at uni until October.
Managing to do a bit, but not enough, gardening so need to catch up there too.
Sorry self-pity is not attractive, I'm going now.Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.11 -
Morning all. Kaz, I hope you don't have to fast for that blood test.
I'm up slurping first cuppa. Three weeks until big family holiday not that I'm counting.....
Today, I aspire to sort out some admin, do dailies, do Nattys list, change bedding, dust bedroom, hoover through and mop floors. Oh and walk dogs and pop to shop.
I may not get everything done as I'm meeting friends this afternoon.
Have a great day everyone.Spend less now, work less later.10 -
Morning all xx
Thank you for the lists xx
(((Hugs))) to Narc0 xx
That's a lot of aspiring Jazee 🙂 xx
I'm up, made my bed, eaten breakfast and supped my brew.
To Do Today
Shower and wash hair
Get dressed
➡️ town
- take a bag of books to cs 🐸
- check no suspicious activity on bank account
- give bank updated contact details
➡️ PO
- pay rent x 2
- withdraw cash for Pops
PJ and S calling for coffee
Pay back PJ
1.50pm ➡️ bigger town to pick up DS's GF
➡️ take GF to job interview- approx 30 minutes drive according to G00gle
Wait- remember to take a book and New Home card
➡️ take GF home
Look round the house - not seen it yet
➡️ home
In between I'll feed the birds and put out the recycling. WUDUPA would be useful too.
Apparently GF is very unhappy in her current job.... but I don't understand why she's applied for a job 20 miles away when she doesn't drive. Heyho. DS says he doesn't think she's thought it through but he's happy so 🤐 He's at the cricket today hence my role as taxi driver. And breathe....
Better make a start.
Have a good day/ week my lovelies
Rxx
IT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme10
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