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Very sorry to read the sad news about your relative. Always hard but you’ve had such a lot of loss together it must make your loss seem harder.Hope you get to the tiny church and cafe too, time to think about your relative.Thinking of you.4
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A peaceful passing can sometimes be a blessed release. I hope the time in the little church brings some comfort.Thinking of you and sending gentle (((hugs)))
I Believe.....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.
happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
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So sorry to hear about your relative x"Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee3
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condolences - look after yourselfI think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
Smiling and waving and looking so fine4 -
I'm sorry for you loss.
It's normal to question everything and push harder / change plans.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.4 -
So sorry to read.Be kind to yourself xI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]4 -
My sympathies. Take the time you need to grieve and look after yourself in the midst of everything.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £165K Equity 38.88% 6/9/26
2) £1.5K Net savings after CCs 29/8/26 (but owed £130) so £1.6K
3) 47/82K @29/8/26 = 57.31% AVC Goal by mid 20283 -
So sorry to hear of another loss. Continue to look after yourselfJune 2026, Mortgage free, Emergency fund fully funded & £200/200 cash maximum pb holding .:jWeight 12st challenge 11st 2lb
Gift to children challenge £40k in 2 years. Short term gift challenge 7 presents and $1300 can by September.
Determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection. I’m not perfect but I’m good enough.
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Sorry to hear news of relative passing , so soon after the lady. Be kind to yourself.Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.4
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Sorry to hear news of relative passing , so soon after the lady. Be kind to yourself.Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.3
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