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Buying a house is always stressful especially doing it on your own
Hopefully not long to go now though 🤞
Very envious of your home by the sea 😍MFW 2025 #50: £1139.75/£600007/03/25: Mortgage: £67,000.00
12/06/25: Mortgage: £65,000.00
18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38
27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
27/12/24: Savings: £12,000
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MFWannabe said:Buying a house is always stressful especially doing it on your own
Hopefully not long to go now though 🤞
Very envious of your home by the sea 😍If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them
Emergency fund 800/1000
Buffer fund 0/100
Debt Free (again) 25/0720252 -
Sorry you've been unwell, hope you are on the mend now. I also feel a very strong pull to the sea. Although not as close as you will be, I am lucky to be in fairly easy reach of a whole selection of beaches and can get to several in less than an hour.
You've got a whole team of MSE friends behind you ready to help you over that line into your new house, so post away with any angst. It sounds like you are getting to the final stretch now, very exciting (and admittedly nerve wracking for you!)."Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee3 -
Hope you feel better soon.
I think house searching and buying is ultra stressful - but I am glad I moved. Hopefully you will soon settle in and make it your own in every way.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/252 -
Hi DIA, thank you for your kind comment on my diary when our cat died. I've been catching up on your diary and my goodness you've been through a lot! Really pleased for you that you're so near to owning your own home. It will be a stressy final stretch but as I have to keep telling myself, hold your nerve. You're almost there!https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase
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Hey! Use my code GW7II3 on Eureka Surveys and unlock a short 80p survey just for signing up! https://eurekasurveys.page.link/do9nSyy8u4nikx6r63 -
Hope you're feeling a little better soon.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.4
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jwil said:Sorry you've been unwell, hope you are on the mend now. I also feel a very strong pull to the sea. Although not as close as you will be, I am lucky to be in fairly easy reach of a whole selection of beaches and can get to several in less than an hour.
You've got a whole team of MSE friends behind you ready to help you over that line into your new house, so post away with any angst. It sounds like you are getting to the final stretch now, very exciting (and admittedly nerve wracking for you!).It's great that you have easy access to the sea when you need it too.
savingholmes said:Hope you feel better soon.
I think house searching and buying is ultra stressful - but I am glad I moved. Hopefully you will soon settle in and make it your own in every way.Yes, it is ultra stressful but like you I'm sure it will be worthwhile in the end
PennysIntoPounds said:Hi DIA, thank you for your kind comment on my diary when our cat died. I've been catching up on your diary and my goodness you've been through a lot! Really pleased for you that you're so near to owning your own home. It will be a stressy final stretch but as I have to keep telling myself, hold your nerve. You're almost there!MovingForwards said:Hope you're feeling a little better soon.If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them
Emergency fund 800/1000
Buffer fund 0/100
Debt Free (again) 25/0720255 -
Sorry you are still unwell.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/251 -
I've spent the past few days trying to get better and also deal with all the information from the solicitor.
I was overwhelmed, but feeling less so now. One of the reasons is, I discussed some of my concerns with a friend of a friend who has a past history as a surveyor. Some of things I have issues with they made me see it from another viewpoint.
I'm now thinking the house may not be perfect forever, but will be fine for the next few years. It delays my downsizing
One of the issues is: the search reveals the property has a moderate to severe risk of subsidence. I know this is a problem in London as it is built on clay. My property is obviously not in London, but is in the SE. I suspect large areas have this risk (which seems inordinately wide as there is a big big difference between moderate and severe) The survey notes changes in climate change in the future and subsidence risks in the next 20-30 years that should be insured against. The current insurance is normal and the survey did not show any signs of subsidence. Part of me feels the property is a few hundred years old and hasn't shifted, why would it move now? But then climate change is with us isn't it?
I have been told there is a way to check if there any subsidence claims in the street for a small cost. Does anyone know anything about this?
Off to read other diaries and chill a bit
If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them
Emergency fund 800/1000
Buffer fund 0/100
Debt Free (again) 25/0720254 -
This article talks about a check you can have done - https://www.thisismoney.co.uk/money/experts/article-3393668/We-buying-home-concerned-moderate-risk-ground-stability-flagged-property-report.html
To my (not an expert) mind, if there was a real imminent issue then the insurance companies would be all over it given that it will likely cover a large area."Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee3
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