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  • Haven't managed to catch up entirely buffy as there were 260 new comments since I last looked at boards.  Your tiredness could be from how much you do (which is a lot) but also possibly peri-menopause as others have said - I'm convinced I am peri-menopausal and have a lot of the symptoms you describe.  Def agree with checking whether there is anything free you could take advantage of, whether via your union or are there any well women clinics locally?
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    Evening, 

    I don't think I am currently a union member. 

    I got chatting to a friend at work and she thought I ought to save my money and go to the doctors in the half term. I wish I could reply individually but am so tired and quite angry. About many things. 

    Work was so stressful in the morning, I used a magnesium spray to help me sleep and slept in. I work with lovely people who are all very stressed out so we are managing but not thriving. I keep expecting the rug to be pulled out from under me. Eventually once I had finished teaching it was better. Had quite a laugh with my friends. I just need to do my job. Go in do job. Go home. 



    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • I forgot to say, one of the rabbits is ill. It is of course one of the rabbits that my friend gave me and can be quite serious illness. 
    He won't let me catch him to give him his antibiotics. 

    this creates a lot of problems. I should separate him so I can medicate him but losing from the group means a rebond. He may be on meds forever. It is the type of illness he would have had for a long time but he hadn't ever been to the vets before and I knew he had something wrong.. damnit! 

    I think I will have to have a big rabbit related sort out at the weekend. Small bun will need to go somewhere else.... I will need to fill in the burrow they have dug and cover it with slabs and then restart the meds. Best I can manage. Hopefully will work. 


    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Not a great day. 

    I am going through a sad phase. 

    Plus Smallest Bun went for me. 
    Sick Bun ran away from me. 

    Work is so hilariously bad it is like a parody of reality apart from it is actually reality. A very real reality. 

    Money wise I just spent a lot of money on my sister. 

    I need to spend some time on the garden at the weekend. Try and do house work/shopping tomorrow post work and then am getting my hair done Saturday. Then garden...............
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • stymied
    stymied Posts: 656 Forumite
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    I hear you on the sad phase 😢

    Try to do something for Buffy too as well as your sister x
  • Willowtree222
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    😢 Hope you’re ok x
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  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    I don't think I am ok really. More bad news at work. 

    I am so tired. 
    Mum is doing well. 

    I want to nap but can't. 
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
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    Buffy. If you need to nap then you do.
    Listen to your body.
    Sorry that you have had more bad news at work  xxx
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  • milann
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    Sorry you’re having a tough time - sending some positive vibes your way 👍
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Sorry to hear you feel this way and sorry about the bad news at work. Rest if you need to. Take care xx
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