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NST September 2020: the turtles do the Hokey Cokey

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  • Sorry for lack of check ins but I am ill. Not sure if it's just a bad cold (mum's been struggling with one for about four weeks) or 'normal flu' (feels like flu but a normal cold can do that to me) or C19 (had a temperature yesterday) but productivity is greatly reduced. Saturday a.m. opened a double page of a notebook and jotted down 'to do's and 'shopping as I thought of them or noticed them. Then I tried to identify basic needs and most important tasks - killer headache is impeding my ability to think logically.

    So Saturday I continued with the kitchen cupboards. Most now have 3 layers, spares or extra bits (many in the new storage jars with packet labels used as temporary markers) at the back, former back of cupboard items (some with spares underneath) and the second (middle) row and items at the front of the cupboard are still at the front but with extras included where there was space (tin I brought mixed stock cubes includes a box each of mum's beef and chicken oxo with an open box on top and is in the cupboard rather than out on the worktop - most of my herbs and spices are out on the worktop as there were no spaces for them (have refilled the 12 jars mum has in her spice rack were they have been used - about 3 will rarely or ever be used). Toilet roll cupboard rejigged (and all the flower vases put away) and many bottles of oil and vinegar (including new additions and recent purchases) put in there as well - only cupboard tall enough for some. Basically, I'm here for the duration and my cooking things now have established places rather than hovering on the fringes like unwanted guests. Do miss at least 3 of my knives though.

    Once Doctor Who started I sat sewing and also chopped carrots, leeks, celery to go in with the brisket and once that was in the oven, I filled another ice cream tub with a second lot. Other priority jobs were putting my 'sheep quilt' (double layer of Italian merino wool, very heavy and blissful to sleep wrapped up in) outside over the line to air and also dabbed any spots and stains and putting away the food delivered the night before (was so tired I left the cans and bottles outside overnight and some of the stuff that came in only made it into the hallway or behind the couch - anywhere we couldn't fall over it). Went to bed early and fell asleep before 9 p.m.

    Yesterday was similar, fed clothes into the machine as I found them, cleaned the shower screen and base (not all in one go), sat down for Pride and Prejudice and did more sewing. It was going to be brisket for lunch (with a change of veg) but mum wanted kippers (mentioned I'd bought her some) and fancied takeaway tea, so she had kippers, I had beef with mini potatoes, cabbage (both cooked before mum announced her plans) and the remainder of the veg that had been cooked alongside the brisket and I put all the remaining beef, the veg I'd chopped and the casserole veg which came in the order and a couple of handfuls of soup mix and more cabbage in mum's largest pan and left it bubbling for most of the afternoon.

    Actually went for a nap twice during P & P (good job I know the plot) and then mum got in a huff because I couldn't find the takeaway leaflet. I'm deliberately not hunting for things because although there is still a mess, most things are sorted/ semi-sorted and I don't want to disturb the remainder - I need to work through it methodically. This policy paid off because I found the leaflet beside me when I went for one of my naps (after we'd both had some of the excellent stew, just what I needed) and did an order on their new order line (in case I felt worse again today - we had enough stew and takeaway to get us through a couple of days at least). I've also since found the tool I was looking for to part dismantle the polytunnel and a hardier version of the same thing (in the tiny pot by my bed with manicure tools, staples and a kilt pin).

    Another early night (a bit later than Saturday as I wanted to finish my book) and kept going back to sleep as long as I could. Woke just before 10 a.m. to hear mum on the phone, complaining that the door was still off (because I can barely stand up myself let alone balance a door to screw it back on - and I couldn't squeeze the wood filler into the holes when I tried). However 5 minutes later she came into my room to check that I was still breathing (apparently it was the second time she'd been in and was going to phone her friend back if I'd died).

    Mum is ill - I asked yesterday if she wanted to stay in bed or if she was better sat upright (need to phone the doctor for more anti-biotics today) but I am also ill and it's tiresome to keep having to tell her I'm ill too. Will just plod on but intend staying quietly in my room as long as possible. I had hoped to make a quick trip into town or to bring more garden stuff from home but a quick assessment each morning has meant a NO to that. Will continue plodding, doing what I can and resting as much as possible. We have food and clean clothes, anything else is a bonus.

    Today I am grateful for getting things done however slowly, for finding places to put things and making empty spaces, for mum being concerned about me (let her grumble - it's better than her telling me 6 times about something that's already on the list).
    My mission in life is not only to survive,but to thrive and to do so with some Passion, some Compassion, some Humour and some Style.
    NST SEP No 1 No Debt No mortgage
  • A deep clean on a fri does seem rather pointless, nannyg, as we were told to leave 72 hours between one group + the next touching things as that delay 'killed' the virus. Our local primary did it for a while on a weds, which made more sense...
    NST March lion #8; NSD ; MFW9/3/23 Whoop Whoop!!!
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