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Bluestone Mortgages

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  • Jen271626
    Jen271626 Posts: 282 Forumite
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    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    Yeah mine doesn't have any info I dont think. Its Brightstar who does. I don't think I can go through this process ever again via a packager via a broker. I'm someone who needs to know every detail to feel in control and not knowing anything is so hard. I feel like if I can il need to go it alone next time if we are lucky enough to be successful, so that I can track the whole process and feel a sense of control and calm as a result.

    I feel like Rose and Jack in titanic bobbing about on that piece of wood clinging on for life 🤣
  • Samrau
    Samrau Posts: 57 Forumite
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    Jen271626 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    Yeah mine doesn't have any info I dont think. Its Brightstar who does. I don't think I can go through this process ever again via a packager via a broker. I'm someone who needs to know every detail to feel in control and not knowing anything is so hard. I feel like if I can il need to go it alone next time if we are lucky enough to be successful, so that I can track the whole process and feel a sense of control and calm as a result.

    I feel like Rose and Jack in titanic bobbing about on that piece of wood clinging on for life 🤣
    😂 you make me laugh I’m sure we will all be ok in the end!! 
  • Samrau
    Samrau Posts: 57 Forumite
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    Kb21 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    I’m the same waiting for a completion date 😩
    Really how long has it been for you since it started? 
  • Kb21
    Kb21 Posts: 510 Forumite
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    Samrau said:
    Kb21 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    I’m the same waiting for a completion date 😩
    Really how long has it been for you since it started? 
    24th feb  we had our dip 😩😩
  • Jen271626
    Jen271626 Posts: 282 Forumite
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    Kb21 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    I’m the same waiting for a completion date 😩
    Why is it taking them so long, are you still waiting on searches? Its fairly quick here in Scotland once the offer comes through in comparison to England I think, we are lucky.
  • Kb21
    Kb21 Posts: 510 Forumite
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    Jen271626 said:
    Kb21 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    I’m the same waiting for a completion date 😩
    Why is it taking them so long, are you still waiting on searches? Its fairly quick here in Scotland once the offer comes through in comparison to England I think, we are lucky.
    Don’t ask. Sellers solicitors or shocking, no we have had all searches back just waiting on the enquiries raised with solicitors to be answered. I’m in wales and everything is dragging 
  • Samrau
    Samrau Posts: 57 Forumite
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    Oh NO well I really hope they start to pull the finger out and get moving for you! I couldn’t help myself had to text my MB 😂 he said nothing back from bluestone yet. He thinks we will get good news early next week.
  • Jen271626
    Jen271626 Posts: 282 Forumite
    100 Posts First Anniversary Name Dropper
    Kb21 said:
    Jen271626 said:
    Kb21 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    I’m the same waiting for a completion date 😩
    Why is it taking them so long, are you still waiting on searches? Its fairly quick here in Scotland once the offer comes through in comparison to England I think, we are lucky.
    Don’t ask. Sellers solicitors or shocking, no we have had all searches back just waiting on the enquiries raised with solicitors to be answered. I’m in wales and everything is dragging 
    Honestly don't know how you are still sane! Really hope they hurry up now and you hear something soon! 
  • coral_a
    coral_a Posts: 96 Forumite
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    I’m just losing the will to live! Our application went in 9 April, last requested documents were submitted the bank holiday weekend so they would have got them 4th May and we’ve heard nothing! 
  • Kb21
    Kb21 Posts: 510 Forumite
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    Jen271626 said:
    Kb21 said:
    Jen271626 said:
    Kb21 said:
    Samrau said:
    Jen271626 said:
    I am honestly losing the will to live with all this! Struggling to concentrate on anything else. Refreshing my email inbox 50,000 times a day, refreshing the Bluestone timescale page numerous times. The worst process ever 😫 feel like I'm losing the plot.
    I know the feeling. Keep feeling tempted to contact my MB but he said he will keep me updated so don’t want to keep annoying him 😂 I’m annoying myself as it is. 
    I’m the same waiting for a completion date 😩
    Why is it taking them so long, are you still waiting on searches? Its fairly quick here in Scotland once the offer comes through in comparison to England I think, we are lucky.
    Don’t ask. Sellers solicitors or shocking, no we have had all searches back just waiting on the enquiries raised with solicitors to be answered. I’m in wales and everything is dragging 
    Honestly don't know how you are still sane! Really hope they hurry up now and you hear something soon! 
    Who said I’m sane 😂🤯😩. The wine helps. 
    Me to I’m getting ridiculous impatient now. 
    Let’s hope we all get some good news in time for bank holidays 
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