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I think I know what you're all going to say here but here goes!

edited 30 November -1 at 12:00AM in Marriage, Relationships & Families
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  • Skiddaw1Skiddaw1 Forumite
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    I think I'd be temped to send him a FB 'friends' request. See if he responds to that.
  • SuperPikachuSuperPikachu Forumite
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    Skiddaw1 wrote: »
    I think I'd be temped to send him a FB 'friends' request. See if he responds to that.

    Not now, that will be weird if he is already not messaging
  • mason's_mummason's_mum Forumite
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    Not now, that will be weird if he is already not messaging
    I think I agree with this - I can't do anything, my hands are tied!
    I'll give him until Friday when then it's been a week of no contact, then I will try to call him from my work mobile (different number) or with my call ID hidden and see if he picks up.
    After that I'm definitely out of options other than messaging his mother through Facebook and telling her how disrespectful her son has been and hope he gets a b*llocking that way, or ringing him at work! - neither of which I want to (or would even dare to) do.
  • SpendlessSpendless Forumite
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    He does have a Facebook page - I actually found it a bit weird when Facebook suggested we should be friends about an hour after we exchanged phone numbers, I did view it then, but it's private - last viewable post was March 2019.
    I din't know if this is correct but my teenage daughter told me this happens if one of you has been viewing the other ones facebook page.

    I'm more tempted to tell you to leave it, if you haven't heard from him within another week-ish, move on.
  • SpendlessSpendless Forumite
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    Have you also considered his phone might be broken or playing up?
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  • Skiddaw1Skiddaw1 Forumite
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    Not now, that will be weird if he is already not messaging


    Just thought that if- as seems likely- he has visited OP's FB page (as he flashed up as a potential friend) it wouldn't be too forward to send a friends request. Though I see what you mean.
  • svainsvain Forumite
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    Spendless wrote: »
    I din't know if this is correct but my teenage daughter told me this happens if one of you has been viewing the other ones facebook page.

    I'm more tempted to tell you to leave it, if you haven't heard from him within another week-ish, move on.

    Its the telephone number that Facebook picks up on and suggests friends from that.
  • nicternicter Forumite
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    svain wrote: »
    Its the telephone number that Facebook picks up on and suggests friends from that.
    I don't have a tel number linked to my account but still get friend suggestions :)
  • LadyDeeLadyDee Forumite
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    Quite honestly, it sounds like you're stalking the guy on social media.

    If he phones, let the call go to messages. This will give you an idea of his state of mind. In the meantime look for new love interest, because this one doesn't seem to be going anywhere.
  • If he wanted to contact you, he would
    NO MORE HANDWASH GLITCHES PLEASE :D:D
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