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Embracing the new family dynamics and looking forward to the future with optimism

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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    I am off to bed, didn't realise the time watching Escape to the chateau make do and mend. Getting inspired.
    Today was a good day considering everything.

    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • gizmo111
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    thorsoak said:
    Sorry gizmo - I stand corrected.   I know that the county council has been castigated about the way that they have allowed the Social Services dept to run (or run down).
    Pretty much the same nationwide......and the strains on services through COVID in adults, children and mental health have been horrendous . :( 

    Mama read so much about the dangers of drinking alcohol and eating chocolate that she immediately gave up reading.
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    Dgs 1 is having a bad day!
    He has punched, kicked, thrown, head banged, door slammed and bedroom wrecked, sitting room trashed, bathroom trashed.... 

    And I breathe deeply.
     There doesn't seem to be any reason for it escalating today, but it has been like a series of tsunami one after the other. Just when you think the calm has settled he is off again!

    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • thorsoak
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    Hmmm.......check what routine DS & GF instigated yesterday morning - how different was it to yours today? xxxx

  • hb2
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    Welcome home Polly! :)
    It's not difficult!
    'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
    'Wonder' - to feel curious.
  • sarahevie1
    sarahevie1 Posts: 630 Forumite
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    That's a shame for Twin1. I do think it's not ideal she's so far away as the visits with DGD do seem very infrequent to an observer; maybe she could relocate? We're all guilty of this as life is hectic; but you don't appear to physically see the Twins very often and geography I'm sure plays a part. It'd be something to consider if she wanted to, but may bring other problems. That sounds more negative than I intended but I hope you get the jist. 
     In her shoes I'd be grateful for a roof over my head, and that the set up (however challenging) has enabled her to keep her youngest children. 
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