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Embracing the new family dynamics and looking forward to the future with optimism

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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    beanielou said:
    Enjoy your r & r. 
    You need it. 
    Did you get my PM? 
    I will go look for it 
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • hb2
    hb2 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    I can't imagine how such people think?
     I am nervous about having to go to the Primarni with dgd as she desperately needs new clothes. I have masks at the ready of course. But still I can feel the dread rising. 
    Yes, I can understand that anxiety. We went into town last weekend and I would say that at least 75% of people were completely oblivious of the 'keep left' signs!
    It's not difficult!
    'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
    'Wonder' - to feel curious.
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    beanielou said:
    Enjoy your r & r. 
    You need it. 
    Did you get my PM? 
    Can't find any pm?
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    We went to Primarni and although the queue looked long it was maybe 10 minutes. But oh!
    inside the only distancing was from the tills. We had masks on, very few did, but people were just wondering around. I was expecting one way systems may be?
    all three of us were highly stressed and couldn't get our undies etc and get out quick enough. Worst was the whole place didn't have any open loos. I actually expect a speeding ticket coming home as I was hovering around the limit and just over desperate to get back to the loo!
    never again!

    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • beanielou
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    Sent you a message on FB. 😊
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  • just_trying
    just_trying Posts: 1,010 Forumite
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    thorsoak said:
    Some people are far too judgemental - how each and any one of us deals with our finances is down to each and every one of us.   How dare you tell Ss to "need to sort your finances and sell the camper if you are not going to use it soon,  your debt repayments are eye watering! How you afford them I don't know! "  - has Ss asked for advice on her finances?  No!

    Jump off your high horse, most people would think paying £800 in debt was a lot she mentioned it!  She couldn't afford it without the benefits she receives!  By the way the twins aren't yours either!

    Savvy you seem happier and I wish you well,  maybe arrange set times for your son to see the kids and if he doesn't show stop it, he's not a good parent. I wish you well, I've messaged you before but I will not comment anymore X.
  • hb2
    hb2 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    Yes, the lack of available loos is also a big problem and will limit the amount of time that people want to spend in shops etc. It is one of the things that has stopped us going further afield - even if we take our own drinks, we will need to use a public toilet if we are out for long. I'm thankful for my 'radar' key but that's only of use if there is actually a disabled toilet in evidence!
    It's not difficult!
    'Wander' - to walk or move in a leisurely manner.
    'Wonder' - to feel curious.
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    I no longer have a radar key. I gave it to my Neice when she was pregnant and on crutches with hip displacement issues. 

    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
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