£50,000 in 3 years diary. Can I do it???

~daisy~_2

sending big hugs your way roxie - not what you want for the weekend

if its any consolation we were meant to be going skiing tomorrow with some friends - had lessons bought the gear all packed and sorted kids with the oldies lah lah - friends just rang to cancl as her sister has been taken seriously ill

feel bad but all i keep thinking is what a waste of money !!!

RoxieW

thanks daisy- these arguements always seem to come at the wrong time. I found out about the lapdancer a couple of weeks before our wedding which was great! feel utterly miserable.

rubbish about the skiing! can you not still go without the friend? It is v expensive isnt it - never been as I'm more of a beach holdiay girl but when i've looked into it I know all the gear costs a fair bit!

~daisy~_2

dont think so as its there place out there - im the same re. the beach and sun they spent six months persuading us to go - well me - hub was desperate to go

we have no idea how to get to there place from the airport or the ski passes or anything - we just left it up to them
also we were going to be using there spare skis and stuff - think it would be pretty complicated to go on our own

with the argument - only advice i have really is to be the bigger person - not that helpful
i know how harmful and hurtful online friendships can be from personal experience - i was the one who had the pretend friends - but for me it was a symptom of something that was lacking in my real life
before it was resolved i did end up being deceitful selfish and very hurtful - but that was me and i eventually woke up and saw what i was doing

hopefully he will take notice of how him posting these sort of things is upsetting to you - as your partner and husband - he needs to take on board your feelings as a consequence of his actions
hope this comes to a speedy conclusion roxie xx

~daisy~_2

oh and im damn sure he so wouldnt be just fine about it ........if its any help !!

~daisy~_2

think the weekend is back on.......

RoxieW

ooh v exciting daisy! have a fab time.

arguement status - resolved (by me of course!) Decided I wasnt going to waste our family weekend on some stupid cow off facebook. Dale cant see my point of view - I'm sure if I dragged it out a week he'd eventually cave in but i cant be arsed. He knows how I feel so I'm leaving it at that. Plus I do think I overreacted a teensy bit but i'm big enough to admit that - getting him to admit anything is like blood from a stone!

Doing the 'family run' up to leeds today. Its a hassle and I can think of a million things I'd rather do with my day but hey - familys family!

~daisy~_2

and off again - unfortunately the sister passed away at approx 4pm this afternoon

glad my friend didnt arrive in Geneva to that news so the right decision was made in hindsight

RoxieW

oh god, thats nasty - poor girl. its hard to be peed off at the lack of a trip after news like that. you'll have to do something fab with the cash you would have spent this weekend - posh dinner or something maybe? soften the blow a bit! oh, and shoes - new shooooeeeessssss!

~daisy~_2

almost - designer sunglasses and very posh dinner !!

SortingIt_2

Good morning!

Hope you managed a nice easter weekend and not feeling too upset by all the other stuff. You most certainly are the bigger person!

Well I start my diet today and typically have 5 easter eggs from the weekend sat in my cupboard!!! I am determined not to fail. Have kept myself busy this morning cleaning, now finished the bathroom from top to bottom and going to start another room in a moment. Yesterday I went for a long walk up Butser Hill - was a bit of a mare as some poor guy had fallen off his bike and injured himself and the air ambulance had to be called, not fun running up and down hill I can tell you to get people to help!!! The guys was ok though, wounded pride and a broken collar bone!

I am hoping all my diet stuff comes through the post tomorrow after the long weekend - want to do this properly!

Right must get off and do some more cleaning. Hope all is well with you. x